"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What made women so spoiled? is it nature or nurture?

AttackFormation

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It just hit me today. I was thinking of this girl acquaintance I have who recently ignored a couple of messages I sent. This isn't about her, it's just what made me start thinking about it. Let me say that I personally don't care about some of these criteria (living with her parents, broke, no education) and others are positive to my preference (fat in the way I like it), but I'm comparing them to what criteria it takes for guys.

Take a guy (a friend I have) and a girl (the girl from above). The girl is 23, fat, smoked since teenage, loves drinking, lives with her parents (iffy case, because this city's housing market is seriously f*cked up), has no regular job but works extra sometimes at a daycare, has no aspirations to higher education and isn't too bright, but she knows how to suck d!ck because she's spent her life f*cking around.

The guy is 24, fit, has a job, has an apartment, looks pretty good, no drug addictions, is enrolled in higher education and is good in bed from having girlfriends (that he got sick of & were below his standard, his own words).

Who's gonna get the most likes on tinder?

I have another girl acquaintance I hit on in the gym a while back. She has a really pretty face but is overweight, smokes, works as a receptionist with no aspirations of higher education that I know of, lives with her parents (but we'll pass on that because most importantly she's 20 and also she lives in a city whose housing market is a joke) and is apparently really dumb. This girl has 14 000 likes on Badoo. Let me repeat that. This girl has 14 000 likes on Badoo. That means even if she's had the app for six years ie. since she was 14, which is a stretch as she probably got it when she was 16-18, she STILL got 6,38 likes EVERY day. Let's repeat that too. Even in a low estimate, she's gotten 6,38 likes EVERY DAY FOR YEARS. This girl would not be able to write back to all of these people even if she would like to meet them.

What's the cause of this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Because american girls are spoiled and coddled by their dads and society. Their mistakes are simply excused and most of the time awarded. This is why you see girls cheating on millionaires with some bum. They think it is cute and they know they will get away with it. I feel like this site contributes to it too. We place the girl on a different pedestal and you must simply ignore her bad actions because you will look butthurt. My ex made me look like a fool last night, so I told her every dirty word in my mind and to get the **** out of my life. Some posters here would cringe because I look butthurt and I've lost the ability to make her in to a plate. Why the **** would I want to keep in touch with somebody that humiliated me?
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
Because american girls are spoiled and coddled by their dads and society. Their mistakes are simply excused and most of the time awarded. This is why you see girls cheating on millionaires with some bum. They think it is cute and they know they will get away with it. I feel like this site contributes to it too. We place the girl on a different pedestal and you must simply ignore her bad actions because you will look butthurt. My ex made me look like a fool last night, so I told her every dirty word in my mind and to get the **** out of my life. Some posters here would cringe because I look butthurt and I've lost the ability to make her in to a plate. Why the **** would I want to keep in touch with somebody that humiliated me?
I'm pretty sure making a plate out of your ex would suck, ESPECIALLY if you were dumped. You're absolutelly right, but cussing at people is pretty childish.
 

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These are the reasons that women have the princess syndrome:

1. Men
2. Men
3. Men
4. Men
5. Men
6. Men
7. Men
8. Men
9. Men
10. Men
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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djthiago1 said:
I'm pretty sure making a plate out of your ex would suck, ESPECIALLY if you were dumped. You're absolutelly right, but cussing at people is pretty childish.
I was also really drunk lol
 

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skinnyguy said:
These are the reasons that women have the princess syndrome:

1. Men
2. Men
3. Men
4. Men
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6. Men
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8. Men
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agreed x10.

+Mens' sex drive, x10.

It all come down to sex. Regardless of if men need it more than women, or if women need it more than men, men are the most open about needing it, and that gives women they control they have and keep getting better at.
 

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VikingKing said:
Your mother gave you to much attention.
Or your mother didn't give you enough...

"Master Don Juan", why the insults bro? There was nothing wrong with the OP. GTFU.
 

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logicallefty said:
agreed x10.

+Mens' sex drive, x10.

It all come down to sex. Regardless of if men need it more than women, or if women need it more than men, men are the most open about needing it, and that gives women they control they have and keep getting better at.
Just approaching a woman at a club gives her the feeling that she is a deity.

The PUA society did a great job in ruining women. Now they feel even more entitled and turned men into their lapdogs.
 

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Western women have ridiculous material expectations of their men and expect to be put on a pedestal at all times (instead of being equitable partners). Bringing little to the sexless & boring relationship other than expensive bathroom faucets, obesity, credit card debt and demands to work harder to afford undeserved luxuries to fit in with their consumer culture.

A huge part of the reason women are so ****ty is precisely because they're spoiled by the way betas and white knights treat them. They get free favors, money, and special treatment from these thirsty ass dudes for doing nothing other than look pretty.

Most men would turn into annoying cvnts too if they got that kind of treatment from society.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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