"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What loan places are available for apartment rentals?

YoungSir4sho

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Yea im trying to get my own apt. Only to rent tho. Like an 800 to 1g a month for a 1bedroom or studio. Now I have the job to pay for it.

But the problem is that I have bad credit, and also don't have the money at the moment for the security and 1 month deposit.

Basically im trying to find a place or bank who will give me a loan for 1 or 2gs. I already googled loans but most of them are scams especially the internet ones lol.

So does any1 know any secure places or links to a website?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Tha't a bad way to start.

I assume you are leaving your parents for the first time?

You already have bad credit.

Don't make it worse by having to pay back a loan at the same time you have to start paying rent and everything else.

Why not just save for a couple of months and not take out the loan?
 

goodfoot

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Try whoever you bank with. They may be able to give you a loan. Don't do those cash advances though unless you can pay it off in 1 month or less.
 
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