"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What lines do you use when you're caught with an innapropiate erection?

petah2001

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This is probably a problem that mostly the younger people have but I still get it from time to time as it fades away. A few months ago at my prime AFC time I would have said something like "Sorry, I guess you just really turn me on." But now I've become an RAFC and I would use something like.

"That thing has a mind of it's own and I think it likes you!"


any other ideas?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bobman

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I've actually never been caught. All of mine are always sanwiched between me and my pants. :S
 
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