What level of affection is normal when dating?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Master Don Juan

Jul 1, 2021

Affection is inflammatory to your value as a man, you have to be able to operate without emotion, meaning you don't necessarily respond to her with compliments but rather you give her something to respond or react to.

Most guys are not genuinely affectionate, they are just trying to avoid being offensive because sometimes you have to say some f#cked up stuff to them, they got bad habits sometimes.

Being affectionate is only fulfilling one side of the relationship, sure she might be your 'Sugar Moon Baby' but she still needs to be stimulated and attracted to you

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.