"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What leads to the most success on a day 2?

mackdaddy27

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Basically I followed the suggested way so far
I was able to get this girl on the phone. I talked to her on the phone for like 20 minutes.

I was able to set up a time where we'll met for some coffee. Next week. But I was never able to score a girl this hot or this young before in my life. (Mainly milfs and girls my age) I dont want to lose this chance to make strides in game. but I don't have the experience or knowledge of 'best game plan' or structure to what I am trying to achieve in this day2 ,the question is how I can make it a success...

I am a control freak, I like to know everything. I want to win a gf ! I am looking for something serious maybe a gf etc I guess the best effect is to have sex with her first.

What I fail to understand is that what leads to the most success on that front
--> humor just having a really fun time
--> Just connecting wit her
--> be wild unpredictable and spontaneous
--> be completely alpha and continue the demostration fearlessness



Basically what is the best mindset, and
what type of 'game' leads to the most success on a day2?

Anyone have any threads I should read
I remember tyler saying that the DHV coming from acting in your natural state will top the other verbal game...etc

Thanks....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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horaholic

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Is she over 21? If so, scrap the coffee, and meet for a drink at a classy small lounge type place. Coffee dates are boring, and tighten people up too much to be a good date idea. Action dates are always better, though. Whatever you do, have an excuse to bring her back to your house. Rent a few brand new movies or something, and mention them on a high escalation point. Also, keep your ears open for ANY excuse to got to her house too. If she mentions ANYTHING that is in her house say you want to check it out.
 

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horaholic said:
Is she over 21? If so, scrap the coffee, and meet for a drink at a classy small lounge type place. Coffee dates are boring, and tighten people up too much to be a good date idea. Action dates are always better, though. Whatever you do, have an excuse to bring her back to your house. Rent a few brand new movies or something, and mention them on a high escalation point. Also, keep your ears open for ANY excuse to got to her house too. If she mentions ANYTHING that is in her house say you want to check it out.

shes under 20
 

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Get her a fake ID. She'll love you forever! lol. JK.

I would still avoid the coffee, and find a fun action date, and maybe go for coffee afterwards, if you cant get her to go home with you. Hell, if she's under 21, she would probably love to go back to your place and drink a bottle of wine. (lets see who'll flame me for condoning underage drinking!)
 
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