"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What ladies man traits do you envy the most??

Demystify

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So what ladies man traits do you guys envy the most? Here are mine

Personality-wise: I wish I knew how to respond well and smoothly when a girl makes fun of me or is a b 1 t ch to me.

Looks-wise: I wish I had a natural bad boy look, like the girl just sees me and instantly knows that I'm a bad boy without me saying a word to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Exhumed

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I second the second one. I look very young.

As for the first one...I usually just smile, look her in the eye, and say "Excuse me? Don't you talk back to me like that :) " like she's a child, and go from there...said seriously, but with a smile, so she knows you're disapproving but otherwise unaffected.
 

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Just treat girl like they are your little sister or nephew, pat them on the head of mess their hair up saying 'aww, thats cute. When you get angry you get the most adorable bugs bunny overbite. Now go to your room!'
 

Demystify

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Murse said:
Just treat girl like they are your little sister or nephew, pat them on the head of mess their hair up saying 'aww, thats cute. When you get angry you get the most adorable bugs bunny overbite. Now go to your room!'
Maybe that's my problem. I don't have a little sister or nephew. I only have an overbearing, strict, controlling mother. :(
 

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I suppose easy conversation is mine. No problem with someone I quickly find common ground with but otherwise, its hard.

I have the badboy looks and build - in fact my resemblance to a really shady local character has been commented on at various times!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Definitely being quicker, and smoother with my words when it comes to bytch sheilds. If you can plow through them, your in most of the time.
 

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i do in a way believe in the look stereotype except for the fact that i'm perceived as cute but in actuality i am a badboy. Most girls say i give off the player type of vibe.

I wish i knew how to reject girls better. I am improving but sometimes i literally have to hide from them because they stalk me and i just can't find a way a straight forward way to tell them to fvck off. I've done it a few times and it's worked like a charm. not only did they fvck off but apparently they started liking me more but it's still hard to do because i feel bad for them.
 

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Everyone who said quicker with words: Just pause before you say anything (Even if you know what you're going to say). Try it and tell me how it works out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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