"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What kind of women are DJ dating?

Ladiesssman

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I've heard enough from reading posts from this forum of women want one man for food, another man for entertaining, and another man for sex, and the like. What kind of women are you guys seeing? And also you have do be a don juan thing to be the only one man.. Is this shyt true?

I may been overgeneralizing of what I've read. But at least can you true don juans out there tell me, what kind of girls do you pick up.

Are they genuine girls? I mean those successful ones as much as good looking???

I'd like to hear from all of you. Give me your stories.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trance

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I like my girl cause:

- She cares about me
- She wants to do the stuff i enjoy doing with me
- She's very pretty
- She is a hot women in bed
- She's a tender, sweet girl
- She loves going out and party
- She can give me my space without being any problem in the relation.
- She loves me and i love her.



One thing. I've never fallen for a girl i've met in a club.
I just fall for girls i know from some friend circle, and that i know for a couple of weeks/months and i start getting interested.

If you think about it, you go out clubing, and even if you make out with a girl / week, what about the girls that have common friends with you? You see them a whole lot of times, and in your subconscious, you start filtering them till you get the selection that you might fall for.
 

DeathDealer

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Let's see, if the girl is attractive that's great. But I like going out with girls that like being around with me.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
Let's see, if the girl is attractive that's great. But I like going out with girls that like being around with me.
Tell me if I'm wrong but it sounds as if you're selling yourself short; almost as if you don't care what type of woman she is, just so long as she likes hanging around you. Hopefully you wouldn't supplicate just to keep her around.
 

Glenfiddich101

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I've always liked girls that are physcially and verbally expressive. Girls that are very feminine and knows how to take care of her man. Playful girls are fun to be around too.

My ex was like that but i was too immature at that time to maintain a LTR.

My present gf isnt really what i've described so it aint gona go the distance.

Thats life i guess
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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