Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What kind of women are DJ dating?

Ladiesssman

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I've heard enough from reading posts from this forum of women want one man for food, another man for entertaining, and another man for sex, and the like. What kind of women are you guys seeing? And also you have do be a don juan thing to be the only one man.. Is this shyt true?

I may been overgeneralizing of what I've read. But at least can you true don juans out there tell me, what kind of girls do you pick up.

Are they genuine girls? I mean those successful ones as much as good looking???

I'd like to hear from all of you. Give me your stories.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Trance

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I like my girl cause:

- She cares about me
- She wants to do the stuff i enjoy doing with me
- She's very pretty
- She is a hot women in bed
- She's a tender, sweet girl
- She loves going out and party
- She can give me my space without being any problem in the relation.
- She loves me and i love her.



One thing. I've never fallen for a girl i've met in a club.
I just fall for girls i know from some friend circle, and that i know for a couple of weeks/months and i start getting interested.

If you think about it, you go out clubing, and even if you make out with a girl / week, what about the girls that have common friends with you? You see them a whole lot of times, and in your subconscious, you start filtering them till you get the selection that you might fall for.
 

DeathDealer

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Let's see, if the girl is attractive that's great. But I like going out with girls that like being around with me.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
Let's see, if the girl is attractive that's great. But I like going out with girls that like being around with me.
Tell me if I'm wrong but it sounds as if you're selling yourself short; almost as if you don't care what type of woman she is, just so long as she likes hanging around you. Hopefully you wouldn't supplicate just to keep her around.
 

Glenfiddich101

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I've always liked girls that are physcially and verbally expressive. Girls that are very feminine and knows how to take care of her man. Playful girls are fun to be around too.

My ex was like that but i was too immature at that time to maintain a LTR.

My present gf isnt really what i've described so it aint gona go the distance.

Thats life i guess
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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