"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im not her boyfriend, she already have one but always complains about him. We have sex and mess around everytime i go see her. I wouldn't want a relationship with her but I do care for her. She calls me just about everyday. Now she want me to meet her family for chirstmas and she is telling me I'll be her first american friend to meet her family.

I wouldn't mind going becuase im in a different country away from my family.....but I wonder whats up her sleeve. She is kinda messed up in the head but I care for her as a friend. She always bring up stuff about ex-boyfriends and her current boyfriend. And like yesturday one of her boyfriends that raped her once tried to come over and do it again to her. And she always say **** like she wants a baby. I been thinking about not having sex with her anymore and try to be more as a friend and help her out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlackDragon said:
Im not her boyfriend, she already have one but always complains about him. We have sex and mess around everytime i go see her. I wouldn't want a relationship with her but I do care for her. She calls me just about everyday. Now she want me to meet her family for chirstmas and she is telling me I'll be her first american friend to meet her family. .
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She is a hor and you have a case of hor-itis!!!!!!!!!!
 
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no I dont want a relationship with her, becuase i know she is a *****. She isn't the only girl im messing with either. I just feel the need to help her out or somthing. But i think shouldn't meet her family becuase...it would feel ackward. I just wonder why she would invite me in the first place and not her "boyfriend".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She is probably lying about the b/f or if she has a b/f then she is trying to get him jealous at your expense!! Danger danger - stay away from the hor - she is tricky!!!!!
 
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