"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What kind of relationship is this?

BlackDragon

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Im not her boyfriend, she already have one but always complains about him. We have sex and mess around everytime i go see her. I wouldn't want a relationship with her but I do care for her. She calls me just about everyday. Now she want me to meet her family for chirstmas and she is telling me I'll be her first american friend to meet her family.

I wouldn't mind going becuase im in a different country away from my family.....but I wonder whats up her sleeve. She is kinda messed up in the head but I care for her as a friend. She always bring up stuff about ex-boyfriends and her current boyfriend. And like yesturday one of her boyfriends that raped her once tried to come over and do it again to her. And she always say **** like she wants a baby. I been thinking about not having sex with her anymore and try to be more as a friend and help her out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BlackDragon said:
Im not her boyfriend, she already have one but always complains about him. We have sex and mess around everytime i go see her. I wouldn't want a relationship with her but I do care for her. She calls me just about everyday. Now she want me to meet her family for chirstmas and she is telling me I'll be her first american friend to meet her family. .
She is a hor and you have a case of hor-itis!!!!!!!!!!
 

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no I dont want a relationship with her, becuase i know she is a *****. She isn't the only girl im messing with either. I just feel the need to help her out or somthing. But i think shouldn't meet her family becuase...it would feel ackward. I just wonder why she would invite me in the first place and not her "boyfriend".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She is probably lying about the b/f or if she has a b/f then she is trying to get him jealous at your expense!! Danger danger - stay away from the hor - she is tricky!!!!!
 
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