"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What kind of music do you listen to?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rogue said:
I listen to deep house, progressive, deep progressive, tech, deep tech, minimal, tribal, drum & bass, dubstep, trance, techno. And since it's rare to find a fellow electronic music aficionado, I leave you two little gems:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAuZ1Lw0UtI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVQwLiiylHU
Too deep for me personally. Some huge progressive house and tech house for you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZ5rQXuoJLM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7o3TYWHMf5Y
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have for the pass month been listening to MTV Jams on cable.

There is something about this type of music that gets me going.
 

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I listen to just about everything but for the last few years It's been mostly Trance/House and everything like it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KIDZBOP and Selena Gomez/Demi Lavato tunes ftw. Oh and Taylor Swift. OMG she is like so awesome and stuff.
 

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i love chill stuff. a lot of reggae/rock combos just put me in a good mood. and some of em have some kickass lyrics.

"if you dont need me, then i dont need you on my mind..."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ee4qJha4_hs


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFGmnJQ_BF0


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8g09JyE0IB0


"dont stop, keep working again, dont you quit, dont you ever give in"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RX4BYsH3eek

and then i also like some of the current stuff. who doesnt like to be able to sing along to the radio?
good sh1t

"i walk up to the world and cut the lights off.. confidence is a stain they can't wipe off"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7XN1eI8lcCs
 
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