"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What kind of music do you listen to?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rogue said:
I listen to deep house, progressive, deep progressive, tech, deep tech, minimal, tribal, drum & bass, dubstep, trance, techno. And since it's rare to find a fellow electronic music aficionado, I leave you two little gems:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAuZ1Lw0UtI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVQwLiiylHU
Too deep for me personally. Some huge progressive house and tech house for you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZ5rQXuoJLM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7o3TYWHMf5Y
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have for the pass month been listening to MTV Jams on cable.

There is something about this type of music that gets me going.
 

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I listen to just about everything but for the last few years It's been mostly Trance/House and everything like it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KIDZBOP and Selena Gomez/Demi Lavato tunes ftw. Oh and Taylor Swift. OMG she is like so awesome and stuff.
 

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i love chill stuff. a lot of reggae/rock combos just put me in a good mood. and some of em have some kickass lyrics.

"if you dont need me, then i dont need you on my mind..."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ee4qJha4_hs


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFGmnJQ_BF0


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8g09JyE0IB0


"dont stop, keep working again, dont you quit, dont you ever give in"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RX4BYsH3eek

and then i also like some of the current stuff. who doesnt like to be able to sing along to the radio?
good sh1t

"i walk up to the world and cut the lights off.. confidence is a stain they can't wipe off"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7XN1eI8lcCs
 
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