"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what kind of movie to watch on a date?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Movie dates suck.

You can't talk. You can't build attraction. You just sit there watching a giant TV.

Terrible idea.
 

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Yeah, don't go watch something that she'll be completely engrossed in. In fact, go ahead and watch something boring. At least something neither of you will mind missing large chunks of.
Last movie date I went on I saw Narnia in 3D. Got about five minutes in before we ditched the glasses and made out for the rest of it. Here and there we made fun of it together.

Thriller horrors are good too though, cause it'll make her feel like you're protecting her, but it's not great for making out. DON'T go watch a romantic movie. They are NOT turn ons. If anything they'll start comparing you to the amazingly handsome a charming lead character.

In the end what really matters is that YOU'RE the first thing on her mind, not the movie.

PS. and watching a ****ty movie means there'll be less people in the theater which means more intimacy.
 

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lol okay, a crappy comedy movie then? - leave the good movies for girlfriends right? :)

so basically im paying to make out with a girl? :p i just wanna make out with her! by the way, this is the second date and i dont think its such a bad idea. she wanted to see a movie on the first date but i said no. im thinking of going to shoot some hoops at the arcade since she likes sports. it will be like 2 dates in one. some fun at arcade + movie/making out. good no? i want this date to be really fun and i want to be making out thats for sure :)
 

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you know what. i thought about it. on the way there. playing some arcadeand the previews is plenty of time foe kino and kissing. im not gonna waste money to watch a crappy movie. ill just do the arm over the shoulder while watching a scary movie. she told me she likes scary movies but cant watch it alone. *hint hint* just spending time with her makes me pretty happy. kissing and all i can fit in parts of the date.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HappyHarryHardon said:
you know what. i thought about it. on the way there. playing some arcadeand the previews is plenty of time foe kino and kissing. im not gonna waste money to watch a crappy movie. ill just do the arm over the shoulder while watching a scary movie. she told me she likes scary movies but cant watch it alone. *hint hint* just spending time with her makes me pretty happy. kissing and all i can fit in parts of the date.
Sounds like a plan. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
 

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Movie dates violate the $40 rule and you'll definitely be spending more than $40.

ill just do the arm over the shoulder while watching a scary movie.
The way you pharsed that made it sound "hella", random.

she told me she likes scary movies but cant watch it alone. *hint hint*
You're reading waaay too much into that. She didn't infer that she wanted to watch a scary movie with you, it's just that she needs company to watch them.

just spending time with her makes me pretty happy.
You sound like you're starting to get oneitis. I STRONGLY suggest that you sarge other woman.

You're kino escalation sounds very random. I hope you started ignitating kino in the last date. Kino is a series of small steps that eventually lead to kissing, foreplay, then sex.

You need to focus on building comfort and showing this chick that you're a man. You're incessantly over analyzing everything. There's nothing wrong with planning things out, but you're trying to prevent mistakes. A willingness to make mistakes and learning from them is the only way you'll get better
You sound like you're starting to get oneitis. I STRONGLY suggest that you sarge other woman.
 

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As noted here, movie dates suck.

But ask her what her favorite movies are and rent (a non-violent) one on DVD and watch it with her. Make popcorn, serve drinks, massage her feet, and you should be making out by the half-way point.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
Movie dates violate the $40 rule and you'll definitely be spending more than $40.



The way you pharsed that made it sound "hella", random.



You're reading waaay too much into that. She didn't infer that she wanted to watch a scary movie with you, it's just that she needs company to watch them.



You sound like you're starting to get oneitis. I STRONGLY suggest that you sarge other woman.

You're kino escalation sounds very random. I hope you started ignitating kino in the last date. Kino is a series of small steps that eventually lead to kissing, foreplay, then sex.

You need to focus on building comfort and showing this chick that you're a man. You're incessantly over analyzing everything. There's nothing wrong with planning things out, but you're trying to prevent mistakes. A willingness to make mistakes and learning from them is the only way you'll get better
You sound like you're starting to get oneitis. I STRONGLY suggest that you sarge other woman.
where do you get 40$ from , are you factoring in food and stuff too ?

ive never been to a movie that costs more that ten dollars , and usually the girls pay for themselves, it never hindered my movie time progress

dont get me wrong , if a girl is a hb8 and up or she interests me ill steer clear of a movie , but if ima be going with a hb5-7 , why put in the extra effort for something that's not worth it.

im not defending movie dates , there more HS stuff honestly , but they don't bother me either , and if you accomplish your goals the kind of movie wont matter , you shouldn't be watching it anyways ;P
 

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ive already been out with her and kissed. and like fuk im gonna spend 40 dollars. i usually dont even pay for any girl. i pay them in other ways free :)

you guys gave me an idea though. i dont have much to offer at home but i have a very nice romantic room cause i have a small lamp that is very dim like a candle or lava lamp and it gives off a pink cream shade in the room. that and some good house/dance music would set the mood in. fool around a bit. give her a massage (use to do it for a living) then go to the arcade+movie.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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