"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What kind of hair styles are in?
- Thread starter Rudyy
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
theunflushables
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I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Unless, your emo or goth and you have a crazy hair style.
Master Bates
Master Don Juan
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Long hair (red shirt) http://newsday.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/08/foos.jpg
Semi-long http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Profiles/20061005/244.grohl.dave.100406.jpg
Trimmed http://hardheavy.no.sapo.pt/DaveGrohl.jpg
Short http://www.exposay.com/celebrity-ph...live-davis-pre-grammy-awards-party-1ogCtA.jpg
I guess it depends on what kind of hair you have...a pic would help
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
theunflushables
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Damn right. I stopped going to places where they use clippers long ago. The scissors just make it look so much better.Master Bates said:
theunflushables
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nightcrawler
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Balding sucks
suaveplayer
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yea i'm wondering also...I've NEVER been to a barbershop before.suaveplayer said:
My mom has always cut my hair but I'm bored of it now :yawn:
Time for a hair makeover :trouble:
I'll post up a pic later on, and let you guys make some suggestions.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.