"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What kind of guys "kill it" where you live?

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I don't know any guys that KILL IT in the bar or club around here in the northeast. My area is very cliquey.

I would say that the guys around here that do well with the ladies are SOCIAL CIRCLE guys who fit at least one of these profiles:

1. Tall and white (a tan helps but not critical)

2. Stocky bad boy (sort of the chubby guy with earrings and tats) or at least broad shouldered (even if overweight) with a badda$s look

3. Black guy with most any look as long as he's outgoing

4. Guy with money (and hair lol)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haven't figured it out yet (been here 3 months half of which have been in other cities in the province). I killed it back in Halifax(university city) where I am from but out here its a strange mix. Its either getting in through the social circle or being tatted obnoxious and throw your oil money around being the life of the party(drugs). About 75% of the girls here are tattooed up.

I make almost 6 figures, 6'2", fit, and play lots of sports but am still having a hard time finding the groove I had in my hometown. Working on figuring it out now.
 
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I live in North Carolina (Chapel Hill to be exact) and I have to say that Fraternity kids here KILL IT.

Usually it is the All American kind of White guys, anglo looking, usually fit (ripped), in fraternities, and mostly outgoing that kill it with ALL KINDS of girls here. A lot of them dress preppy but when I say they kill it with all kinds of girls, I mean it.

I have seen these guys nail some pretty looking White girls (obviously) but even a lot of the 8/10 and up Latinas and Asian girls are getting with them too. These guys have access to a lot of the top tier girls here that other guys don't really have. When I say have their pick of the litter, I mean their pick of the litter, these guys nail 8/10s and up of any race.

As for runners up, I will say that Americanized Asian and Indian guys don't do that bad at all. I have seen a lot of Asian guys here date cute Latin and White girls, some even dating hot Black girls. For Indian guys, I have seen them date White girls and Asian girls a lot, I myself have been with some Latinas and so have other Indian guys I have known but usually they date White girls and Asian girls if they aren't with Indian girls. They don't do so bad here.


This may come as a shock but I have not seen that many Black guy - White girl couples here at all, most Black men I see here are usually dating Black girls or Latinas but I have talked to a lot of White girls here who said they just aren't into Black men.

Hard for me to say anything about Latinos but I will say they have it good, I will put them inbetween the White guys and Americanized Asian and Brown guys.

FOBs (Asians and Indians usually) are at rock bottom, lucky to get a date with a woman of their own race.

So what about your area?
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I was in a fraternity for a while myself....talk about an easy way to get laid on a consistent basis....was one of the funnest times of my life. If you are a college student and are in to partying then i would highly recommend it...the problem is finding one with some actually down to earth cool guys...most frat guys are douche bags...i lucked out with mine.
 
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Just being white nets you all the women here, you dont even have to be attractive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mike32ct said:
I don't know any guys that KILL IT in the bar or club around here in the northeast. My area is very cliquey.

I would say that the guys around here that do well with the ladies are SOCIAL CIRCLE guys who fit at least one of these profiles:

1. Tall and white (a tan helps but not critical)

2. Stocky bad boy (sort of the chubby guy with earrings and tats) or at least broad shouldered (even if overweight) with a badda$s look

3. Black guy with most any look as long as he's outgoing

4. Guy with money (and hair lol)
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I would say this, but take out number 1 and change number 3 to any guy who looks normal (no deformities and who isn't a troll) instead of just black guys.
 
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bish0p said:
I would say this, but take out number 1 and change number 3 to any guy who looks normal (no deformities and who isn't a troll) instead of just black guys.
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ya that, I heard Puerto Rican dudes do good too
 
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