"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What kind of facial hair do you have?

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619joe

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I usually go with the thin sideburns(just until about the bottom of ear not too long) and occasionally have some on the chin but again it not bushy or anything but it is noticable
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I tried growing a goatee, but the facial hair wasn't thick enough.

Right now I'm clean shaven.
 
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First prize, brand new cadillac.
Anyone want to know what second prize is?
Set of steak knives.

Third prize is, you're fired.

Great scene.
 
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MrS said:
First prize, brand new cadillac.
Anyone want to know what second prize is?
Set of steak knives.

Third prize is, you're fired.

Great scene.
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This is prolly the best scene there is when you feel lazy.

Pumps me up everytime...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I got a crazy ass chin strap thing happening...I'm basically a bearded monster at this point :moon:
 
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I have Native American in me so I can't grow enough facial hair. I am 20 but people always think I am like 16 or 17. Instead of calling me sir, they call me young man or something lol
 
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most girls like clean shaven guys or a little "scruffy" look. But all girls are different. You can't go wrong with clean shaven though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Only 16, I have a little sumthin goin on I have a moustache... sometime I grow it sometime I cut it... I dont let it get all bushy and **** tho u know just a clean one... got some chin hairs coming in lol
 
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Growin' a beard...that's right, the full Jesus...because nobody ****s with da Jesus! :D

I don't know if it'll really help with women, but damn if it doesn't make me want to live in a log cabin and kill bears...
 
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'burns with clean shavin' face....u just gotta find what works best for you and maintain it properly
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is pretty funny because I used to have the clean shaven look because girl's liked it better (That's what they said)

But now I just make it grow.
- Side Burns are wild
- Mustache is very visible
- Small beard

Sometimes I take my hair out so I look real bad boy looking. It's pretty cool because despite the way I look, I come off as more dominant. So I've kind of kept the look. Also while talking to this chick who ended up giving me and the guy I was with the password to get into a club free. She had no clue that I was 18, she thought I was over 21.
 
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ive grown stubble for 3 days lol, i dont suit it 2 days is maximum, looks good after 2 days, doesn't feel scuffy, im comfortable with it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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