johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Hey guys i need your help does anyone what good kind of colonge is out there for a 14 year old and a 15 year old?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Really? I do mine differently. I spray the left wrist, rub them together, then rub my right index finger on the left wrist and rub it on the back of my earlobes.Originally posted by C00L
15 is not too young. Just teach them how to use it properly.
Seriously the chicks will be all over their balls. Just go to the marshall fields or wherever, and smell the different colognes that are offered and buy whatever you think they will like.
Remember, 1 spray on the wrist, rub them together, then rub the wrists on the neck. Thats how cologne is done.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.