johnnyhero79
Don Juan
Hey guys i need your help does anyone what good kind of colonge is out there for a 14 year old and a 15 year old?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Really? I do mine differently. I spray the left wrist, rub them together, then rub my right index finger on the left wrist and rub it on the back of my earlobes.Originally posted by C00L
15 is not too young. Just teach them how to use it properly.
Seriously the chicks will be all over their balls. Just go to the marshall fields or wherever, and smell the different colognes that are offered and buy whatever you think they will like.
Remember, 1 spray on the wrist, rub them together, then rub the wrists on the neck. Thats how cologne is done.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.