"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"What kind of car do you have?"

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Awesome response. You should have asked her what kind of vag she has.

I've been lucky enough to not have dated any hardcore golddiggers. But occasionally, I'll get ones that ask why I don't hold doors for them or pay for dinner. Sh**...how about they hold some doors for me.
 

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
Just got this sent to me via text.

I immediately had the Swingers scene stuck in my head and laughed my ass off.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6upp3wJV9UU

I am supposed to take this girl out tomorrow.. My reply was: "One with a big enough back seat"

gold digger much?
Witticisms like these FTW!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Iceberg said:
But occasionally, I'll get ones that ask why I don't hold doors for them or pay for dinner. Sh**...how about they hold some doors for me.
I wonder, what's wrong with opening the door for a woman? I usually open doors for girls, whether they are just friends or girls I am seeing. It gives me a certain charm which they all appreciate, and it's a gesture that takes zero effort.
 

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SandHawk said:
I wonder, what's wrong with opening the door for a woman? I usually open doors for girls, whether they are just friends or girls I am seeing. It gives me a certain charm which they all appreciate, and it's a gesture that takes zero effort.
I hold doors all the time. It's just the request for it that annoys me. As if a girl is owed these courtesies just because she has a vag between her legs.
 

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Iceberg said:
I hold doors all the time. It's just the request for it that annoys me. As if a girl is owed these courtesies just because she has a vag between her legs.
Aaah, that is true. If girls specifically ask for something like that, I just tell them I don't do tricks on command and refuse to give in. I completely agree with you :>
 

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Going out with this girl later, lmfao. Even after she got super sour.

Should be an interesting one..

Will post the text logs and a small field report later..
 

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There are 3 kinds of girls i run from:

1º Attention Wh*res.
2º Golddiggers
3º "Nice Girls"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I had a woman ask me that a few weeks ago. The funny thing is that ever since I quit drinking, my reactions are so much sharper and smarter.

Without even thinking I replied in the most logical fashion I could given the type of question she asked.

Her: What kind of car do you drive?
Me: That all depends. How much do you weigh?

That took care of the stupid questions from her. :rockon:
 
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