"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What kind of behaviour is this?

MountainSlide

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this girl texts me all the time but just says like two words. Yesterday she texted me “I’m tired” three times. What does she want me to do about it lol? I’m not texting her first, she just sends me this. Obviously she’s thinking of me to send the message but tbh, I don’t really give a shyt if she’s tired. I think it’s weird, When I’m at work and feeling tired, I don’t text woman all day repeating “I’m tired” to them. Lol. Retarded right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Atom Smasher

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She's craving attention, plain and simple.

I see a good reminder for us all here. Attention is the currency of women, it is the very fuel they run on and the only thing that keeps their mind integrated. Without attention they experience anxiety which can develop into panic. In fact, as far as I can see, the removal of attention is the one and only tool we men have in dealing with bad behavior in women.

Verbal argument is virtually useless when dealing with them. We have only one tool for discipline, but it is a nuclear bomb. The removal of attention stings her more than any verbal correction can.

If you reply to this girl, you will release the tension she is feeling. Use that push-pull dynamic to your advantage.
 

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this girl texts me all the time but just says like two words. Yesterday she texted me “I’m tired” three times. What does she want me to do about it lol? I’m not texting her first, she just sends me this. Obviously she’s thinking of me to send the message but tbh, I don’t really give a shyt if she’s tired. I think it’s weird, When I’m at work and feeling tired, I don’t text woman all day repeating “I’m tired” to them. Lol. Retarded right?
She is saying "pay attention to me."
 

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She wants to go to bed.:p
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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