"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What kind of behaviour is this?

MountainSlide

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this girl texts me all the time but just says like two words. Yesterday she texted me “I’m tired” three times. What does she want me to do about it lol? I’m not texting her first, she just sends me this. Obviously she’s thinking of me to send the message but tbh, I don’t really give a shyt if she’s tired. I think it’s weird, When I’m at work and feeling tired, I don’t text woman all day repeating “I’m tired” to them. Lol. Retarded right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Atom Smasher

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She's craving attention, plain and simple.

I see a good reminder for us all here. Attention is the currency of women, it is the very fuel they run on and the only thing that keeps their mind integrated. Without attention they experience anxiety which can develop into panic. In fact, as far as I can see, the removal of attention is the one and only tool we men have in dealing with bad behavior in women.

Verbal argument is virtually useless when dealing with them. We have only one tool for discipline, but it is a nuclear bomb. The removal of attention stings her more than any verbal correction can.

If you reply to this girl, you will release the tension she is feeling. Use that push-pull dynamic to your advantage.
 

dude99

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this girl texts me all the time but just says like two words. Yesterday she texted me “I’m tired” three times. What does she want me to do about it lol? I’m not texting her first, she just sends me this. Obviously she’s thinking of me to send the message but tbh, I don’t really give a shyt if she’s tired. I think it’s weird, When I’m at work and feeling tired, I don’t text woman all day repeating “I’m tired” to them. Lol. Retarded right?
She is saying "pay attention to me."
 

wifehunter

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She wants to go to bed.:p
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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