"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what kind of bedroom relaxes girls most?

organizedconfusion

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opinions from experiance please..i have changed my room many times in the last couple of months in order to get the best effect..yeah, yeah, approval seeking ..whatever i don't care..it really dosen't matter to me once their in their panties and horned up,call it whatever you wanna!i am doing the whole comfortable,relaxed atmosphere..one that screams humping is gonna be a takin' place :woo: velvet colored walls, some artsy fartsy wall art ,a love seat ,a liquer cabinet,floor standing lamps,a small bookshelf with odd and bizzare books on sex,astorogy and traveling- as well as an oriental rug and exotic plants (fake,but who cares?) sure ,i might as well get a big neon sign that screams 'player', but i can deal with being labeld as one so it works out anyways :up: my main goal anyways really IS isolation and i figured i need to make my bedroom the most relaxing and sensual atmosphere there is...

how is everyone elses bedrooms set up?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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People would laugh at my room. I have a bed and a night stand. That's it. No pictures, paintings, or anything "cool" I spend 4-5 hours a night in that room.... if i sleep there at all, so I'm not too worried about how it's "decorated".
 

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A clean one. Don't laugh, I'm serious....
 

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Yah - That would be my answer. A clean one. That's all you really need. Although candles and comfortable pillows do wonders.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The cleaner the better for you to be respectable. But, you don't want to clean it too meticulously just for a chick, or else you're lame.

So, make it odorless and tidy. When a girl is coming over to your place, get the dishes out of the sing, clean the toilet quickly, put things in stacks (if you don't want to do too much), and spray some air spray around. That's the basic of what you should do.

But really, there's no reason in general your place should be a mess. That's not about getting a chick, it's just about being clean yourself.
 

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Real Talk

I pride myself on the design of my apartment especially the bedroom. First all I painted my walls midnight blue before i moved in for amazing effect. I have a queen size bed with a mirrored headboard. My bed linen and pillows match the paint of my room. I also managed to fit a loveseat in my room, I got good space. Three tall candle stands with candles, and cherry oak bookshelf and a small Tv stand with 32 inch widescreen tube. On the wall framed art and portraits. On my bookshelf i keep sexual oriented books and text i know will be attention grabbers and u must have a stereo set nothing matches good music. The look on females faces when they enter my bedroom is priceless and as you can see by the other posts, most guys dont put the effort into design of their room which makes me look even better in their eyes. Its not just about females though I love coming home from a longs day work, taking a shower and bumping some Sade, when your home is designed the way u want it like mine is , you feel so peaceful and relaxed. I dont have alot of money I just buy what i want when i can I like nice things and females recognize quality. Find your personal style and invest a few dollars to turn your bedroom into a palace you ll reap the rewards sexually and mentally. High quality bedding and music are the most important.
 

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Spook said:
The cleaner the better for you to be respectable. But, you don't want to clean it too meticulously just for a chick, or else you're lame.

So, make it odorless and tidy. When a girl is coming over to your place, get the dishes out of the sing, clean the toilet quickly, put things in stacks (if you don't want to do too much), and spray some air spray around. That's the basic of what you should do.

But really, there's no reason in general your place should be a mess. That's not about getting a chick, it's just about being clean yourself.
does this mean i have to get rid of my 'garbage corner'? :crazy:
 

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The importance of the state of your bedroom really depends on the situation.

If you bring a horny chick home that you have just picked up in a bar/club who might be slightly tipsy, it really realyl doesnt matter! as long as there is space on your bed for you to nail her.

If you invite a girl around, and you actually chill in your room, sit down, talk, etc... then the importance of it is huge!!! You need to make sure your room is tidy and smells nice.

Candles are a nice touch, but the situation as to be right!

oh, and if there is one chair in the room, make sure YOU sit on it so that she will forced to sit on your bed. She will naturally get familiarised with it and feel more comfortable getting nailed on it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have 2 bedrooms. One with my computer and a single bed. I never use this unless im watching a dvd threw my comp or something. My other bedroom is a Queen Size double bed. It has 2 side tables and thats about it. Girls love that bed thow as it has a massive headboard. Its a big old antic bed. :woo:
 

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Depends on the girl. Some girls you can win over with a dog/cat in seconds...aww...SO CUTE!.....Girls love cute. There is a part on sosuave.com about pets.

http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip128.htm

As for in your house....i dont let my dog into carpeted areas of my house...Pets are generally dirty. I dont let em sleep with me.
 

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Glad you brought this up. There is a nice section which address this in a book called without embarrassment. Check it out!

_ End Dice
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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organizedconfusion said:
opinions from experiance please..i have changed my room many times in the last couple of months in order to get the best effect..yeah, yeah, approval seeking ..whatever i don't care..it really dosen't matter to me once their in their panties and horned up,call it whatever you wanna!i am doing the whole comfortable,relaxed atmosphere..one that screams humping is gonna be a takin' place :woo: velvet colored walls, some artsy fartsy wall art ,a love seat ,a liquer cabinet,floor standing lamps,a small bookshelf with odd and bizzare books on sex,astorogy and traveling- as well as an oriental rug and exotic plants (fake,but who cares?) sure ,i might as well get a big neon sign that screams 'player', but i can deal with being labeld as one so it works out anyways :up: my main goal anyways really IS isolation and i figured i need to make my bedroom the most relaxing and sensual atmosphere there is...

how is everyone elses bedrooms set up?
Is your name Quagmire?

Your room should be something that makes you comfortable and a sanctuary for your personal world (how gay does that sound), not women. Front rooms, guest rooms, family rooms, whatever- that's for the guests. If a woman makes it to your bedroom there won't be much that will turn her back unless you've got a thing for unicorns.

Seriously, this is too much thought into the subject. Just keep some candles, lubricant, and condoms in your upper drawer; definetly an easy to turn on red light. Women love those miniture glowing fountains with running water, gets the ***** wet (hey, I've field tested the *****).
 
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