"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Killed The Musician?

taiyuu_otoko

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Interesting article (here) about what kills various musicians in various genres.

Half of deaths to rap and hip hop artists is murder.

Folk singers die from cancer (they get old).



Perhaps unsurprisingly, Kenny finds that accidents – including car crashes and drug overdoses – are a huge cause of premature death for musicians, accounting for almost 20 percent of all deaths across genres. But accidents are much more likely to kill rock, metal and punk musicians. Punk and metal musicians also appear susceptible to suicide, while gospel musicians had the lowest suicide rate of all genres.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I really want to see a different kind of statistics, about the planes that fly today, and how often each model of plane is likely to fall. On Christmas day in my city plane fell down, killing red army choir, crew, service men, and a lady that was helping children in war torn countries. Plane was Tu-154, produced in 1983, not old by any means. Unknown yet why, but during take off flaps either didn't retract, or deployed, and it fell down 70 seconds into the flight. No commercial airline is using that model, just the military, but still, I really want to know when I buy a plane ticket, what are my chances.
 

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Half of hip hop deaths have been due to murder? That seems like an incredibly high amount. It might have something to do with the fact that hip hop is a relatively young art form, a lot of them haven't had a chance to die off naturally yet.
 
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