"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Naozumie

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So I text this girl I haven't talked to in awhile and ask her to hangout this weekend. She agrees, and I tell her we're going ice skating then to see a movie. She says yes. This is where sh*t hits the fan.

So I tell her we're seeing a scary movie, then she tells me we're seeing this Romance movie. Anyways, she calls me and tells me that we're no longer going ice skating, but going to the movies with like 5 other people I don't even know. I ask her why we're going to the movie with so many other people now, and she says "Is there a problem? You can meet new people."

Should I just tell her I'm not going and just move onto a new girl this weekend, or talk to her about it at school? I'm not in the mood to get ****blocked
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Naozumie said:
So I text this girl I haven't talked to in awhile and ask her to hangout this weekend. She agrees, and I tell her we're going ice skating then to see a movie. She says yes. This is where sh*t hits the fan.

So I tell her we're seeing a scary movie, then she tells me we're seeing this Romance movie. Anyways, she calls me and tells me that we're no longer going ice skating, but going to the movies with like 5 other people I don't even know. I ask her why we're going to the movie with so many other people now, and she says "Is there a problem? You can meet new people."

Should I just tell her I'm not going and just move onto a new girl this weekend, or talk to her about it at school? I'm not in the mood to get ****blocked
Tell her that's not what you expected, and tell it to her straight, that you have no intentions of hanging around in a group scenario. She will either GTFO (Which might be what she intends to do, but no loss for you there.) Or she will respect you more.
Don't let no bvtch treat you like a *****, slash until you're cash.
 

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^^ yup.
Gotta say she doesn't sound full of interest here cuz.

If she don't wanna meet you alone, and she's already taking control of YOUR plans......

I would say, "well maybe some other time then".

And then delete the number.

She doesn't respect you or your decisions.
She doesn't want to be alone with you.
She can fvck off back where she came from.

Be a man and walk away.

That's unless there's more to this story? Some details left out that change the whole thing?
 

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Purefilth said:
^^ yup.
Gotta say she doesn't sound full of interest here cuz.

If she don't wanna meet you alone, and she's already taking control of YOUR plans......

I would say, "well maybe some other time then".

And then delete the number.

She doesn't respect you or your decisions.
She doesn't want to be alone with you.
She can fvck off back where she came from.

Be a man and walk away.

That's unless there's more to this story? Some details left out that change the whole thing?
Yeah, I decided to move onto the next one. That was all of the details.
 

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Yeah, I decided to move onto the next one. That was all of the details.
Thats a little too much. If you are going to say next to every single girl who doesn't behave exactly as planned you're going to have a hard time, and be a lonely dude. Just tell her something popped up last minute and reschedule.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, I decided to give her one more go. I called her and told her I had something come up so I can't hangout with her. She said it was fine and told me that it's her birthday this weekend, that's why she changed plans on me. So I told her we're going to hangout next Satuday since I have track practice Friday. She said that sounds great.

So hopefully things go according to what is planned next weekend. Would you suggest little contact through text, since I don't want to give her too much attention. Or am I just over analyzing because she already agreed?
 

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I would contact her through text at least once between now and then. That's like 10 days from now. If she's a HB she could meet a new guy and hook up between now and then.
 
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