BPH
Master Don Juan
I am proud of who I am today. My family may think I'm cold-hearted when it comes to women, the girls I'm with may think I'm shallow, but at the end of the day I get what I want and I enjoy every minute of it while not wasting a second. In just a year I've made more progress with women than I have in my entire life. Allow me to share what I've learned:
1. There are no "leagues"
Any guy can get any girl on any given day. No matter how hot she is she is not out of your league. I'm not going to lie to you, looks matter, just not as much as you might think. Go after whatever girl gets your d*** hard. If you get the girl - great. If you don't, take a step back and look at the aspects of yourself that you can improve on. If you want to get your dream girl, put yourself in the shoes of her dream man.
I've seen lots of guys that I find unattractive walking hand-in-hand with girls that look like pornstars. Any girl can be your girl.
2. You'll always fail if you don't attempt
Some of you guys think that you can game girls online or that they will come to you if you become this "prize" that you all read about if your PUA books. You won't get jack s*** if you don't go up to a girl and let her know what you want she will never give it you.
Approach everybody you consider hot. Experience is really the only way to get better. Which brings me to my next point...
3. Stop reading, start approaching
There is no magic bullet, there is no full-proof pickup line, and there is no perfect routine. Everything starts and ends with YOU. If you read 60 Years of Challenge, Book of Pook, and all of these books on How to be Alpha, guess what? The guys that write these books are getting the money AND the girls while you start getting caught into pickup "theory". You then proceed to register on a pickup forum and offer your "well-educated" opinions in a never-ending quest for reputation points.
If that doesn't sound fun, it's because it isn't. Get over your fear of rejection, develop your own routines, and become confident in your ability to pull women. How? Go out and approach, women are everywhere. Hell I go 15 minutes out of my way just to go to the mall to have meet these girls. And I live at the a$$-end of suburban Delaware. Almost everybody should be better off.
4. Any pickup line can work
Two years ago, Ocean City, MD. I believe I was 15 at the time, maybe 16. Anyway this was when I first started getting into pick-up. I was reading a lot and overthinking things and I decided to really go out and run some approaches at this boardwalk by the beach I go to every summer.
I was walking with my cousin and I found a really hot girl walking by herself. Her name was Abby, I'll forgo any HB s*** for the sake of this post. Anyway this was the line I used on her, in it's entirety:
"Excuse me ma'am, I'm with the FBI. I'm gonna need your name, number, and measurements."
I wound up making out with this girl and feeling her up on the beach at around midnight. This was a major pull for me, considering I was some 130-lb lightweight and this girl was gorgeous.
5. Work Out
This is the best thing I've ever done with myself. If you need confidence or if you want to look good, this is what you have to do. Go hit the gym for a few hours a week, research a good routine, eat healthier food and I guarantee you will see improvement.
When I started pick-up I went through a period of self-improvement. And this was just the best thing. I had to bulk up to play football and in the year that I started working on a good routine (Starting Strength) I gained about 50lbs. I currently weigh 180lbs and I look f***ing great...AND I feel great.
6. Sex can happen anytime, anywhere, so be prepared
My first BJ was on my school's softball field...while a dance was taking place in the cafeteria next to it.
My first sex was right in front of my Xbox 360, downstairs in my parent's house.
My second sex was on the first meeting I had with a girl that I thought would be an innocent prude - in the back of my mom's car outside of a park in the cold.
You can really get away with just about anything if both parties are up for it. The logistics seem to work themselves out. Therefore always carry a condom.
7. You are in control
If you listen to anything on here, listen to this...you are in control...of just about everything in your life actually.
I have met friends that are super chumps. Yet they refuse to listen to anything that I try to tell them in regards to pick-up or being a DJ, they make excuses and claim that they don't have time or that they can't change.
You can change just about anything you want, you just need the willpower;
Want to look better? Work out and commit to a better lifestyle
Want to be smarter? Study things in a way that you enjoy
Want hotter girls? Go out and approach them
Want a good job? Do something you enjoy doing, and find someone who will pay you for it
Nothing is really out of your reach.
8. Life is about having fun
Self-explanatory, have fun.
At the end of the day, no matter how much money you make, no matter what your grades are, and no matter how hot the girls you pull are, what matters is that you have fun.
Pick-up is not a grind, it is a game and it is fun. Treat it as such and you will reach your goals here.
This is what I've learned.
1. There are no "leagues"
Any guy can get any girl on any given day. No matter how hot she is she is not out of your league. I'm not going to lie to you, looks matter, just not as much as you might think. Go after whatever girl gets your d*** hard. If you get the girl - great. If you don't, take a step back and look at the aspects of yourself that you can improve on. If you want to get your dream girl, put yourself in the shoes of her dream man.
I've seen lots of guys that I find unattractive walking hand-in-hand with girls that look like pornstars. Any girl can be your girl.
2. You'll always fail if you don't attempt
Some of you guys think that you can game girls online or that they will come to you if you become this "prize" that you all read about if your PUA books. You won't get jack s*** if you don't go up to a girl and let her know what you want she will never give it you.
Approach everybody you consider hot. Experience is really the only way to get better. Which brings me to my next point...
3. Stop reading, start approaching
There is no magic bullet, there is no full-proof pickup line, and there is no perfect routine. Everything starts and ends with YOU. If you read 60 Years of Challenge, Book of Pook, and all of these books on How to be Alpha, guess what? The guys that write these books are getting the money AND the girls while you start getting caught into pickup "theory". You then proceed to register on a pickup forum and offer your "well-educated" opinions in a never-ending quest for reputation points.
If that doesn't sound fun, it's because it isn't. Get over your fear of rejection, develop your own routines, and become confident in your ability to pull women. How? Go out and approach, women are everywhere. Hell I go 15 minutes out of my way just to go to the mall to have meet these girls. And I live at the a$$-end of suburban Delaware. Almost everybody should be better off.
4. Any pickup line can work
Two years ago, Ocean City, MD. I believe I was 15 at the time, maybe 16. Anyway this was when I first started getting into pick-up. I was reading a lot and overthinking things and I decided to really go out and run some approaches at this boardwalk by the beach I go to every summer.
I was walking with my cousin and I found a really hot girl walking by herself. Her name was Abby, I'll forgo any HB s*** for the sake of this post. Anyway this was the line I used on her, in it's entirety:
"Excuse me ma'am, I'm with the FBI. I'm gonna need your name, number, and measurements."
I wound up making out with this girl and feeling her up on the beach at around midnight. This was a major pull for me, considering I was some 130-lb lightweight and this girl was gorgeous.
5. Work Out
This is the best thing I've ever done with myself. If you need confidence or if you want to look good, this is what you have to do. Go hit the gym for a few hours a week, research a good routine, eat healthier food and I guarantee you will see improvement.
When I started pick-up I went through a period of self-improvement. And this was just the best thing. I had to bulk up to play football and in the year that I started working on a good routine (Starting Strength) I gained about 50lbs. I currently weigh 180lbs and I look f***ing great...AND I feel great.
6. Sex can happen anytime, anywhere, so be prepared
My first BJ was on my school's softball field...while a dance was taking place in the cafeteria next to it.
My first sex was right in front of my Xbox 360, downstairs in my parent's house.
My second sex was on the first meeting I had with a girl that I thought would be an innocent prude - in the back of my mom's car outside of a park in the cold.
You can really get away with just about anything if both parties are up for it. The logistics seem to work themselves out. Therefore always carry a condom.
7. You are in control
If you listen to anything on here, listen to this...you are in control...of just about everything in your life actually.
I have met friends that are super chumps. Yet they refuse to listen to anything that I try to tell them in regards to pick-up or being a DJ, they make excuses and claim that they don't have time or that they can't change.
You can change just about anything you want, you just need the willpower;
Want to look better? Work out and commit to a better lifestyle
Want to be smarter? Study things in a way that you enjoy
Want hotter girls? Go out and approach them
Want a good job? Do something you enjoy doing, and find someone who will pay you for it
Nothing is really out of your reach.
8. Life is about having fun
Self-explanatory, have fun.
At the end of the day, no matter how much money you make, no matter what your grades are, and no matter how hot the girls you pull are, what matters is that you have fun.
Pick-up is not a grind, it is a game and it is fun. Treat it as such and you will reach your goals here.
This is what I've learned.
