What I've learned from excessive MB

[Newtguy]

So, I on average masturbate 3-5 times a day, often to porn. I've been on a dry spell with women for the last year. I am good looking, but have poor social skills I guess. Anyway, I was hooking up with a girl the other night and she was giving me head while I was doing stuff to her. I could barely keep my erection up and I couldn't get off from the BJ. It was kinda embarrassing, but not really. When I masturbate I can get rock hard fast and keep it up and of course finish.

So, what I am getting at is...I need to stop masturbating or cool it down big time, and get back to reality, otherwise I will continue to have problems with women in bed. My body and mind are so used to a routine with masturbating that the real thing doesn't work for me.

Be careful is all I am saying if you excessively masturbate, you could be setting yourself up for failure and the wrong mindset like I have done to myself!

 

[Zanbato]

I've had the same problem as you a while back.

My solution was to cut out all but the most peremptorily brief and fleeting exposure to porn. It seriously is the only thing you can do.

Check out "your brain on porn" and its ilk; you'll find that there's a growing proliferation of scientific evidence that evinces the connection between frequent porn usage and frequent erection trouble with real women in real sexual situations.

 

[omega05]

good for you

 

[Newtguy]

I'll have to check out "your brain on porn"

 

[Chamber36]

Yeah I wasn't able to *** from *******s or sex either till I was forced to abstain from porn for a month, I went and fvcked a prostitute and waddaya know, I blasted my load doggy style. I was pretty happy.

I am off the no-porn wagon though, I watched some porn yesterday while I was hung over because I didn't get laid this weekend. I suppose I will have to work on my inner game so I don't need porn.

 

[MisterD]

Guess I'm of a rare breed of man who can masturbate as frequently or infrequently as I please and it has no mental or physical consequences on my sex life.

 

[Greasy Pig]

@Mr D. I was like you around your age. I thought it was impossible not to get hard. I'd whack off, go fvck a plate, come home and whack off again.

Then one night when I was about 27, I just couldn't get it up. It affected me for years but no fap got me somewhere close to my old self.

In other words, you might be one of the lucky ones but don't get complacent!

 

[Newtguy]

So, I have to say... I met up with that girl again. The one that I couldn't get off with the blow job. This time we fool around I kinda get hard. She then puts a condom on me and we try to go at it. I go limp almost immediately. So embarrassing. I thought to myself, I have two choices, either I could act all nervous and blame it on the alcohol & the fact I don't like condoms, or just be truthful.

I decided to be truthful and tell her I've been addicted to MB. Or, as some people say POM(porn masturbation orgasm). I think the truth went really well with her. She seem to understand.

So, as of right now I am on 1 week with not masturbating. It's going well, but my junk seems to be dead. I guess its a phase that happens when you start this no fap. I just hope I get some life back in it soon, or this girl is going to be really annoyed!