I've been studying seduction for some time now. I'm gonna summarise the "feel" that I've managed to get of it, here. I mainly wrote this for my own benefit, and for that reason some of the things might not make sense without being in my head, and some things I haven't bothered to put down even though they might matter to other people. This isn't a newbie learning guide. But anyway, I thought I'd give it to you lot to pick at.
You have to get them chasing you. As opposed to you chasing them.
For this purpose, you need to be a challenge. You can't let them know you want them, but you can't exclude the possibility entirely. There are things to say which will communicate that you might like them, and things that communicate you might not; the more mysterious the better. The point where you want to be is seemingly "just out of reach", the frustrating spot where they think they might just be able to, but can't quite get there. For super-hot women that know it, you will be immediately assumed to want them, so you have a long way to go to get to this point. Saying outright "I don't want you" even. (MIXED MESSAGES)
A good way of getting there is the "take it or leave it approach". Seeing as actually caring about the outcome will fail it for you, you actually have to learn not to give a damn either way. The mental options should be: [1."cling onto her and lose it because clingy is extremely unsexy" or 2."Tell her to (act like she can) take it or leave it, and if she stays, great... But anyhow, there are always more fish in the sea."] ~~ of which the better option should be obvious.
Be a man. Be confident. Be dominant. Be "strong". Be aggressive. Stand up straight. Assume you are The Sex.
You can't bore anyone into loving you. Emotion is the key. Excitement, curiosity, fun, ..even anger.
Be real. "Tricks" never really work, not like really being attractive. Have a beautiful soul. Say what you mean. Be passionate. Don't ever be scared.
Life is not love. Have your own life. Care about what you do. Love is like the ketchup on the chips (yanks: -- french fries, yo) of life: it makes it taste about twice as good, but you can't eat ketchup on its own.
You have to get them chasing you. As opposed to you chasing them.
For this purpose, you need to be a challenge. You can't let them know you want them, but you can't exclude the possibility entirely. There are things to say which will communicate that you might like them, and things that communicate you might not; the more mysterious the better. The point where you want to be is seemingly "just out of reach", the frustrating spot where they think they might just be able to, but can't quite get there. For super-hot women that know it, you will be immediately assumed to want them, so you have a long way to go to get to this point. Saying outright "I don't want you" even. (MIXED MESSAGES)
A good way of getting there is the "take it or leave it approach". Seeing as actually caring about the outcome will fail it for you, you actually have to learn not to give a damn either way. The mental options should be: [1."cling onto her and lose it because clingy is extremely unsexy" or 2."Tell her to (act like she can) take it or leave it, and if she stays, great... But anyhow, there are always more fish in the sea."] ~~ of which the better option should be obvious.
Be a man. Be confident. Be dominant. Be "strong". Be aggressive. Stand up straight. Assume you are The Sex.
You can't bore anyone into loving you. Emotion is the key. Excitement, curiosity, fun, ..even anger.
Be real. "Tricks" never really work, not like really being attractive. Have a beautiful soul. Say what you mean. Be passionate. Don't ever be scared.
Life is not love. Have your own life. Care about what you do. Love is like the ketchup on the chips (yanks: -- french fries, yo) of life: it makes it taste about twice as good, but you can't eat ketchup on its own.
