"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What it looks like to spin plates
- Thread starter Starfvcks 64
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Congratulations Starfvcks!
I had some sh*t like that going on my life recently.
Flaked.
No response.
Got angry.
No response.
2 weeks later: Hey, what are you up to tonight!
No response.
Calls me and ask me to hang out
Anyway, I was like f*ck it, 'cause the plates are spinning! So yes, it takes some time to swallow the red pill. It takes a little longer for proper plate spinning (3~6 girls). But when it all comes, one can easily understand why the most common answer to most threads is: Spin Plates!
It is because of sh*t like this that happened to you!
Congratz again. Repped!
