"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is yours ?

johnmich

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It is mentioned a lot throughout the forum and all pullin help that you should have a passion.

What are your passions? (jus wonderin)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brian20o2

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passions are important and not talked about much. i have a few and those are sailing, learning about poeple (see thread "weird idea" under anything else) and admiring nature (no im not a tree hugger, i just love blue skies, a cool breez and scattered white clouds. also foggy mornings are great when u can look from above the fog at treetops)

some people might say im crazy i just love things not all people do, and lots of people are just to insecure to say "i love a beautiful day"

Edit: forgot about music (choir rocks) and just music in general
 
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Mine are rock music, skateboarding, alpine sports, and the mountains. Nothing beats being on a peak, high above the world, and looking out at the beauty of it all. Ok, maybe I'm copying Brian a bit with the nature stuff, but whatever.
 

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I personally love music : can't stand a day without some. Reading is really nice, when the book is passionating (like Fight Club). And my car is really where I put some serious time. Other than that, I like to write, do some ski or snowboard, or just bike around. Also, I love sprints :D so working out could be included in this list.
 
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