What Is Your Woman Reading? (Her Playbook)

[bigneil]

I just discovered this article and it's the blue print for what my last girl did to me. Don't think girls don't study this stuff. I even know girls who have read Art of Seduction.

How to Seduce a Man Who’s Not Yet Yours

Do you want to make him want you? Whether it’s to make him like you or lust for you, here’s your guide on how to seduce a man who isn’t your man yet.

Seducing a man is an art, and one that’s thoroughly enjoyable. Just watching a man feel flustered and awkward because of the sexual tension you’ve created is a rush that few things can give a girl.

A few of these tips may be sneaky and scheming, but hey, we’re not playing dirty. We’re only using the advantage of being a woman! Find out how to seduce a man who’s not your own man, and make him sweat with desire. But what next, do you want him to fall in love with you or are you happy with him trailing you like a lost pup? Either ways, you’ll have a great time and he’ll love you for letting him have a great time. Everyone’s happy and the world is a better place!

How to seduce a man

If you want to understand how to seduce a man, especially if he’s not your own boyfriend, use these ten tips to do just that. It’s subtle, devilishly innocent and he can never ever blame you for seducing him. After all, by using these steps on seducing a man, you’ll make him believe that he’s actually the one who desires you.

#1 Work your eye contact

Now you don’t want him to think you’re attracted to him, so don’t overdo the little staring game. Look, but always look away just as he looks at you. By doing that, he’ll never be sure if you’re even staring at him. And yet, he’d start to get more and more curious about you.

#2 Let him see your best side

Do you think you’re sexy? No? Then start feeling sexy, dammit! [Read: How to look sexy without trying]

If you want to become a wily seductress, you need to feel like one. And when you do, you’ll be able to perfect this move and put it to maximum use. Men love boobs and butt. You know that right?

Look your best when you’re around the guy you want to seduce. Let him admire your curves and those toned sexy legs of yours. When he falls in love with your body, he’s definitely on his way to getting seduced by you.

#3 A little peek-a-boo

The fascinating thing about being a woman is that you can do something outrageous like wearing extremely short skirts and plunging necklines and still blame a man for being a pervert. Of course, now we women aren’t wearing these sexy outfits to please everyone, are we? [Read: Revealing clothes in office]

We’re just wearing these cute outfits for the guys we want to seduce. So all the other perverts can just look away for all we care. [For men: How to stare at a girl’s cleavage]

If you want to seduce a man, never bare everything or wear skimpy clothes. It draws the wrong kind of attention. Instead, wear something that gives you an opportunity to give him a little peek now and then. If he’s standing around you, lean forward to pick a piece of paper or your bag. A guy’s eyes are pretty quick when it comes to sneaky boob grazes. Giving a guy the chance to take a sneak peek now and then would only make him want to see them more, and hopefully without any clothes on. [Read: The reason behind why men like breasts]

Now taking the clothes off for him is your decision, but this move will definitely seduce him and make him want more.

#4 Smile for him

Men are automatically drawn towards women who seem happier and more fun to be with. A smiling, flirty woman is far more approachable than a surly, saggy woman. When you’re having a conversation with him, smile often. It’ll make you seem good natured and happy, which will draw him to you. But don’t overdo the smiling by making it obvious that you’ve got a thing for him. You’re trying to seduce him, not let him know you like him! [Read: How to talk to a guy you like]

#5 Flirt with him

If you’ve got these first few steps down to the tee, the guy you’re seducing would already be attracted to you, sexually or otherwise. Now it’s time to warm him up and let him know that you’re up for a bit of safe flirting now and then. When you’re having a conversation with him, start flirting with him and make him want to continue the conversation with you. If his eyes are ready to pop out in excitement or if he’s got bits of drool, you’re doing a great job at this, aren’t you, you seductress? [Read: How to flirt with a guy without making it obvious]

#6 Lingering unexpected touches

When you’re having a conversation with him at lunch, place your fingers over his palm while emphasizing a point or hold him by his hand as you’re crossing the street. If you’re sitting next to him, allow your feet to touch his feet and pretend like you didn’t notice. Create circumstances to let him touch you, and he’ll want more. [Read: How to kiss a friend by accident]

#7 Don’t throw yourself at him

If you want to know how to seduce a guy, never ever throw yourself at him or let him know that you think he’s hot stuff. By letting a guy know that you’re already interested in him, he wouldn’t feel excited by any of your antics. He’ll just assume you’re trying really hard to get his attention. And you don’t want that.

When you let a guy know you like him, it’ll make him start the game of playing hard to get with you. Instead of seducing a guy, you’ll end up looking trashy and clingy. Always make it look like he’s the one pursuing you, even if you’re laying a seduction trail for him with each step you take.

#8 Ignore him now and then

Every once in a while, when you feel like things are going too smooth between the two of you, stop giving him a lot of attention and conversation time. A guy will always take things easy when he feels like he’s having a great time with a girl. So at least at the beginning, don’t ever let him feel like he’s able to make an impression on you. Ignore him now and then, or just play hard to get with him. It’ll shake up his insecurities all over again, and make him woo you harder. [Read: What men really like in women]

#9 Take him to the dance floor

Guys can never resist a girl’s curves. Take those sexy curves and move them on a dance floor, and he’ll be floored by you.

If you can work your way around getting this guy to take you out clubbing, then you’re definitely on cloud nine of seducing a man. Show off your skills on the dance floor, and let him watch you. Dancing with each other is a great way to build the sexual chemistry and leave a few lasting memories with lingering touches.

#10 Create awkward situations

If you want to know how to seduce a man, get this right and you’d leave the guy you want to seduce with a heart full of love and a trouser that’s stretching on a hard on!

Squeeze into a crowded elevator with him and “unknowingly” let your butt graze against his leg. If he’s sitting down in a chair, come from behind him and reach across his table to get something when he’s not looking. He’ll involuntarily turn and his shoulders have nowhere to touch but your breasts. And that’s by accident, of course. And when you hug him, make sure he can feel your girly parts touch against him. Don’t make any of these moves obvious and he’ll think he’s the lucky one for getting to touch you in places he could only dream of. [Read: How to turn a guy on]

Give him the chance to touch you, and create awkward situations around him. His pants will get tighter, and he’ll do more than just fantasize about you.

So now that you know how to seduce a man who’s not yours, what are you going to do next, make him fall in love with you or use him as a sex buddy? It feels so good to have so many choices, doesn’t it?!

source:
http://www.lovepanky.com/women/attracting-and-dating-men/how-to-seduce-a-man

 

[EyeBRollin]

A man secure in himself is unaffected by this bull****. Don't waste another second reading this junk.

 

[El Payaso]

A man secure in himself is unaffected by this bull****. Don't waste another second reading this junk.

Sounds like something a feminist shaming a man would say. There's nothing wrong with reading from multiple sources to gain a wider knowledge.

 

[sazc]

meh.... I think the majority of chicks intuitively know that. What they lack is the substance to choose a man wisely and be responsible about it.

 

[bigneil]

Here are the key quotes to remember the next time your girl seems to vanish:

"When you let a guy know you like him, it’ll make him start the game of playing hard to get with you. Instead of seducing a guy, you’ll end up looking trashy and clingy. Always make it look like he’s the one pursuing you, even if you’re laying a seduction trail for him with each step you take.

#8 Ignore him now and then

Every once in a while, when you feel like things are going too smooth between the two of you, stop giving him a lot of attention and conversation time. A guy will always take things easy when he feels like he’s having a great time with a girl."

 

[Julian]

chicks are reading 48 laws, art of seduction etc these days

 

[EyeBRollin]

Sounds like something a feminist shaming a man would say. There's nothing wrong with reading from multiple sources to gain a wider knowledge.

There's no wider knowledge to learn.

Spin plates and make dates. That's all you have to do. Girls just want to have fun. It's not rocket science. Don't waste time reading this garbage when you could be interacting with chicks.

 

[wifehunter]

meh.... I think the majority of chicks intuitively know that. What they lack is the substance to choose a man wisely and be responsible about it.

Yeah, my experience is that they are programmed on a subconscious level, and any confrontation or calling out will be met with "what are you talking about!".

Just walk away.

 

[Skyline]

Pretty sure they do all of these without knowing it already.

 

[El Payaso]

meh.... I think the majority of chicks intuitively know that. What they lack is the substance to choose a man wisely and be responsible about it.

They don't "intuitively" know it. Growing up, girls are surrounded by tons of media that tell them how to attract guys, dress provocatively, flirt etc. They also have their girlfriends who spend 90% of their time discussing boys and giving them tips and advice on what to do in different situations. It is all so accessible to them that it seems like they "intuitively know it". Magazines, TV, social media, girlfriends, celebrities, music etc.

Growing up, most boys typically don't have this kind of support system on how to attract girls or media that tells them how. The only media available to them is, of course, the feminized Disney style media that reinforces white knight beta behavior. A teenage boy reading sites like this is almost taboo and would be labelled a misogynist.

Even adult men have to hide their visitation of sites like this because the manosphere is taboo compared to the womansphere.

So what seems like girls "intuitively" knowing it is just them being surrounded by a media and support system that gives them all the knowledge, suppresses red pill knowledge and enforces white knight beta behavior so many men grow up clueless and "confused" about girls.

 

[wifehunter]

They don't. Growing up, girls are surrounded by tons of media that tell them how to attract guys, dress provocatively, flirt etc. They also have their girlfriends who spend 90% of their time discussing boys and giving them tips and advice on what to do in different situations. It is all so accessible to them that it seems like they "intuitively know it". Magazines, TV, social media, girlfriends, celebrities, music etc.

Growing up, most boys typically don't have this kind of support system on how to attract girls or media that tells them how. The only media available to them is, of course, the feminized Disney style media that reinforces white knight beta behavior. A teenage boy reading sites like this is almost taboo and would be labelled a misogynist.

Even adult men have to hide their visitation of sites like this because the manosphere is taboo compared to the womansphere.

So what seems like girls "intuitively" knowing it is just them being surrounded by a media and support system that gives them all the knowledge, suppresses red pill knowledge and enforces white knight beta behavior so many men grow up clueless and "confused" about girls.

So, what seems to be automatic, is really just years of being inundated by feminist BS.

They don't realize they are shooting themselves in the foot, until a real DJ walks away from them. They just need to be schooled. They will only respect a man, who can't be controlled, and is immune or wise to this stuff.

Deprogram...

 

[WitnessGR]

They don't "intuitively" know it. Growing up, girls are surrounded by tons of media that tell them how to attract guys, dress provocatively, flirt etc. They also have their girlfriends who spend 90% of their time discussing boys and giving them tips and advice on what to do in different situations. It is all so accessible to them that it seems like they "intuitively know it". Magazines, TV, social media, girlfriends, celebrities, music etc.

Growing up, most boys typically don't have this kind of support system on how to attract girls or media that tells them how. The only media available to them is, of course, the feminized Disney style media that reinforces white knight beta behavior. A teenage boy reading sites like this is almost taboo and would be labelled a misogynist.

Even adult men have to hide their visitation of sites like this because the manosphere is taboo compared to the womansphere.

So what seems like girls "intuitively" knowing it is just them being surrounded by a media and support system that gives them all the knowledge, suppresses red pill knowledge and enforces white knight beta behavior so many men grow up clueless and "confused" about girls.

I also think this decreet behaviour can also be seen in machiavellian literature, where it is also labeled as taboo, manipulative etc; all in an attempt to dissuade people from such information.

Red Pill = Taboo
Machiavellian literature = taboo

One of the more important things I have learned in life is that if everybody is doing something, you should probably do the opposite.

 

[zekko]

I don't respond well to those play hard to get sort of games, ignoring you or whatnot. I just tend to mark them down as low interest and move on. I want a woman who is high interest and eager to play on my team, not someone who will fight me every step of the way.

A woman's SMV is largely written on her face (or body). She doesn't have to play these games to DHV. Notice the flirting games and lingering touches? That should signal that she is interested, so why the games? Unless a girl is the type who kinos every guy she knows, in which case she comes off as a wh0re IMO.

 

[MrWood]

#8 Ignore him now and then
Every once in a while, when you feel like things are going too smooth between the two of you, stop giving him a lot of attention and conversation time. A guy will always take things easy when he feels like he’s having a great time with a girl. So at least at the beginning, don’t ever let him feel like he’s able to make an impression on you. Ignore him now and then, or just play hard to get with him. It’ll shake up his insecurities all over again, and make him woo you harder.

they train for this shvt!

 

[zekko]

I like that article on why men like breasts. What is softer than a woman's breast? Can't think of anything.

 

[bigneil]

What is softer than a woman's breast? Can't think of anything.

John Podesta.

 

[Pandora]

I don't respond well to those play hard to get sort of games, ignoring you or whatnot. I just tend to mark them down as low interest and move on. I want a woman who is high interest and eager to play on my team, not someone who will fight me every step of the way.

A woman's SMV is largely written on her face (or body). She doesn't have to play these games to DHV. Notice the flirting games and lingering touches? That should signal that she is interested, so why the games? Unless a girl is the type who kinos every guy she knows, in which case she comes off as a wh0re IMO.

Zeeko they dont know this. They are actually clueless. This is why they wonder why they are single at 35. Its sad that their grandmothers dont counter this horrible pop culture advice with more sage advice.

 

[Pandora]

Here are the key quotes to remember the next time your girl seems to vanish:

"When you let a guy know you like him, it’ll make him start the game of playing hard to get with you. Instead of seducing a guy, you’ll end up looking trashy and clingy. Always make it look like he’s the one pursuing you, even if you’re laying a seduction trail for him with each step you take.

#8 Ignore him now and then

Every once in a while, when you feel like things are going too smooth between the two of you, stop giving him a lot of attention and conversation time. A guy will always take things easy when he feels like he’s having a great time with a girl."

Great post OP. This is what i have been saying for a long time. The dating advice that women get is comical. It is absurd and borderline criminal. I wonder how many America women have chased away good guys that they liked by following these ridiculous rules. Much of the hot and cold behavior that we see from women is not necessarily a lack of interest. Much of it is them trying to apply dating techniques written by other clueless women . The catch 22 is that a high value man is not going to stick around for a girl playing hot/cold. So it becomes counterproductive.

American women have it backwards when it comes to playing hard to get. A guy wants you to play hard to get for sex, but not for attention. Give you adoration and attention to him freely. Its the sex that we want to work for. Women are so solopstic that they think what attracts them to a man works the other way around. I used to constantly tell my female friend to not play hard to get mind games with the guys she likes. There is this myth that women are more advanced socially. This is false. They are actually the more awkward, more clueless and less introspective gender. Its sad really.

 

[Pandora]

So what seems like girls "intuitively" knowing it is just them being surrounded by a media and support system that gives them all the knowledge, suppresses red pill knowledge and enforces white knight beta behavior so many men grow up clueless and "confused" about girls.

This knowledge is obviously not working in their favor. Marriage rates are way down, infidelity is way up. You would think women would field test these dating tips and see if it works. Only an AFC would put up with hot and cold behavior. A man with abundance would be like peaaacce.