"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is YOUR sex style?

SandHawk

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Completely unrelated to DJ'ing, but still interesting to see how other people are in this sense; What is your sexual style? How do you act and behave in bed with a girl?

For me, I'm pretty much dominant. Very, very, dominant. I love pulling hair, throwing them around the bed, pinning them down or tying them up with either rope or cuffs. I prefer the girls to be submissive, but not the "I just pretend I'm a corpse" submissive. Hell, I like it when they resist and put up a fight / struggle for a bit. Inflicting pain is part of it, twisting nipples, biting, pinching their labia. Most of the times I do have sex, cuffs are automatically involved, sometimes blindfolds. And when I feel really aggressive, I love to make them beg.

I love it when they leave bite or scratch marks on me, talk dirty and I like to push boundaries. Sex outside, in places I'm visible, sauna, hottub in a public pool, dance floor(fingering), metro platform(fingering).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SandHawk said:
Completely unrelated to DJ'ing, but still interesting to see how other people are in this sense; What is your sexual style? How do you act and behave in bed with a girl?

For me, I'm pretty much dominant. Very, very, dominant. I love pulling hair, throwing them around the bed, pinning them down or tying them up with either rope or cuffs. I prefer the girls to be submissive, but not the "I just pretend I'm a corpse" submissive. Hell, I like it when they resist and put up a fight / struggle for a bit. Inflicting pain is part of it, twisting nipples, biting, pinching their labia. Most of the times I do have sex, cuffs are automatically involved, sometimes blindfolds. And when I feel really aggressive, I love to make them beg.

I love it when they leave bite or scratch marks on me, talk dirty and I like to push boundaries. Sex outside, in places I'm visible, sauna, hottub in a public pool, dance floor(fingering), metro platform(fingering).
That is sexy when they put up a fight and say no :) I love that sh!t. I like to hit it from the back and pull hair while doing it. I like to choke a little bit I'll **** for a long time then pull it out really fast and then go down on you. I really love to have a girl ride me to that's sexy. Big titties in my face like wayne said "keep a hard d!ck for you girlfriend to wobble on". Also depending on the girl I'll have her ride my face for a little bit and get that hip action going. I love to eat ***** turns me on. Yeah, I'm a freak big time. That's why women hate my personality but love to fvck me. Putting scratches on my back is a turn on but now is a no no cause my ex wife saw scratch marks from another women but she was acting like she didn't know.
 

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P.S sex is the most important thing to a dj. Read the sex god method by Daniel Rose that's some good ****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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