"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is YOUR sex style?

SandHawk

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Completely unrelated to DJ'ing, but still interesting to see how other people are in this sense; What is your sexual style? How do you act and behave in bed with a girl?

For me, I'm pretty much dominant. Very, very, dominant. I love pulling hair, throwing them around the bed, pinning them down or tying them up with either rope or cuffs. I prefer the girls to be submissive, but not the "I just pretend I'm a corpse" submissive. Hell, I like it when they resist and put up a fight / struggle for a bit. Inflicting pain is part of it, twisting nipples, biting, pinching their labia. Most of the times I do have sex, cuffs are automatically involved, sometimes blindfolds. And when I feel really aggressive, I love to make them beg.

I love it when they leave bite or scratch marks on me, talk dirty and I like to push boundaries. Sex outside, in places I'm visible, sauna, hottub in a public pool, dance floor(fingering), metro platform(fingering).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chosen1

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SandHawk said:
Completely unrelated to DJ'ing, but still interesting to see how other people are in this sense; What is your sexual style? How do you act and behave in bed with a girl?

For me, I'm pretty much dominant. Very, very, dominant. I love pulling hair, throwing them around the bed, pinning them down or tying them up with either rope or cuffs. I prefer the girls to be submissive, but not the "I just pretend I'm a corpse" submissive. Hell, I like it when they resist and put up a fight / struggle for a bit. Inflicting pain is part of it, twisting nipples, biting, pinching their labia. Most of the times I do have sex, cuffs are automatically involved, sometimes blindfolds. And when I feel really aggressive, I love to make them beg.

I love it when they leave bite or scratch marks on me, talk dirty and I like to push boundaries. Sex outside, in places I'm visible, sauna, hottub in a public pool, dance floor(fingering), metro platform(fingering).
That is sexy when they put up a fight and say no :) I love that sh!t. I like to hit it from the back and pull hair while doing it. I like to choke a little bit I'll **** for a long time then pull it out really fast and then go down on you. I really love to have a girl ride me to that's sexy. Big titties in my face like wayne said "keep a hard d!ck for you girlfriend to wobble on". Also depending on the girl I'll have her ride my face for a little bit and get that hip action going. I love to eat ***** turns me on. Yeah, I'm a freak big time. That's why women hate my personality but love to fvck me. Putting scratches on my back is a turn on but now is a no no cause my ex wife saw scratch marks from another women but she was acting like she didn't know.
 

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P.S sex is the most important thing to a dj. Read the sex god method by Daniel Rose that's some good ****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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