"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is your relationship status?

What is your relationship status?

  • Married and happy

    Votes: 2 4.4%
  • Married and unhappy

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • In a relationship and happy

    Votes: 8 17.8%
  • In a relationship and unhappy

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • Single and happy

    Votes: 22 48.9%
  • Single and unhappy

    Votes: 11 24.4%

  • Total voters
    45

bigneil

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I'm curious what percentage of members have achieved their own goals.

There are three states: married, in a relationship and single. For each state there are two options: happy and unhappy. Thus, there are a total of 3 x 2 = 6 choices. I think that covers them all.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desdinova said:
Separated and in a LTR. Being separated wasn't really my goal, but I've upgraded to a better woman.
To clarify, for this poll, separated = single, because it can't possibly be considered (by experienced forum members, though maybe AFC's) to be a happy relationship.
 

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I find it hard to believe the 100% of forum members are happy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Serg897

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Single, although in the early stages now of dating a few women.

My happiness varies. Somedays I feel great, others not so much.
 

Leopold

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Single and happy in overall. Feeling depressed sometimes that I'm still a virgin but I'm very satisfied in overall with my progress with the results of last month.

My goal for March is to improve my game on the real world and try to be more funny and escalate more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonGorgon said:
singel suck relationships suck.. everything sucks..
I concur.
 

Deicide

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I have a girlfriend but I'm still single and doing cold approach pick-up(Yes, she knows about this).
 

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Deicide said:
I have a girlfriend but I'm still single and doing cold approach pick-up(Yes, she knows about this).
Is she out riding the c0ck carousel, or does she sit at home and knit while you're out getting laid?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Deicide

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zekko said:
Is she out riding the c0ck carousel, or does she sit at home and knit while you're out getting laid?
Lol. Sitting at home. She knows what I do, but it hurts her whenever I bring it up. Even when I'm kidding about it. So I won't tell her what's going on unless she asks.
 

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Deicide said:
Lol. Sitting at home. She knows what I do, but it hurts her whenever I bring it up. Even when I'm kidding about it. So I won't tell her what's going on unless she asks.
You've created an imbalanced situation, which cannot last.
At some point she is going to wake up and not put up with it anymore, unless she has zero self-respect. This is the "it is the nature of plates to spin out" rule.

But it doesn't sound like you care about her anyway, so it doesn't really matter.
 
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