"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is your relationship status?

What is your relationship status?

  • Married and happy

    Votes: 2 4.4%
  • Married and unhappy

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • In a relationship and happy

    Votes: 8 17.8%
  • In a relationship and unhappy

    Votes: 1 2.2%
  • Single and happy

    Votes: 22 48.9%
  • Single and unhappy

    Votes: 11 24.4%

  • Total voters
    45

bigneil

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I'm curious what percentage of members have achieved their own goals.

There are three states: married, in a relationship and single. For each state there are two options: happy and unhappy. Thus, there are a total of 3 x 2 = 6 choices. I think that covers them all.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova said:
Separated and in a LTR. Being separated wasn't really my goal, but I've upgraded to a better woman.
To clarify, for this poll, separated = single, because it can't possibly be considered (by experienced forum members, though maybe AFC's) to be a happy relationship.
 

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I find it hard to believe the 100% of forum members are happy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Serg897

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Single, although in the early stages now of dating a few women.

My happiness varies. Somedays I feel great, others not so much.
 

Leopold

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Single and happy in overall. Feeling depressed sometimes that I'm still a virgin but I'm very satisfied in overall with my progress with the results of last month.

My goal for March is to improve my game on the real world and try to be more funny and escalate more.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonGorgon said:
singel suck relationships suck.. everything sucks..
I concur.
 

Deicide

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I have a girlfriend but I'm still single and doing cold approach pick-up(Yes, she knows about this).
 

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Deicide said:
I have a girlfriend but I'm still single and doing cold approach pick-up(Yes, she knows about this).
Is she out riding the c0ck carousel, or does she sit at home and knit while you're out getting laid?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Deicide

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zekko said:
Is she out riding the c0ck carousel, or does she sit at home and knit while you're out getting laid?
Lol. Sitting at home. She knows what I do, but it hurts her whenever I bring it up. Even when I'm kidding about it. So I won't tell her what's going on unless she asks.
 

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Deicide said:
Lol. Sitting at home. She knows what I do, but it hurts her whenever I bring it up. Even when I'm kidding about it. So I won't tell her what's going on unless she asks.
You've created an imbalanced situation, which cannot last.
At some point she is going to wake up and not put up with it anymore, unless she has zero self-respect. This is the "it is the nature of plates to spin out" rule.

But it doesn't sound like you care about her anyway, so it doesn't really matter.
 
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