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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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what is your personal method for approaching hbS IN 5 POINTS? HERE IS MINE

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QUESTION
why don t we ask anydody or everybody to summariez in 5 ponts their favorite method for seducting HBs
5 POINTS its got to be SUCCINCT and to the point !!! no crap no nonsense
mine
at the mall
1 approach
' i can see you re temmpted to buy this chicken is it a good one
2 A how question
how do you cook it?
3 ****Y AND FUNNY
4 i leave with the words ' you really made my day
5 the columbo approach i come back ' do you have email'?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon

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Thiss makes no sense to me. Please clarify what you mean by 5 points of approach. Do you mean five steps, five points that are part of the approach etc etc. What you've stated is kind of vauge, even your example is isn't exactly lucid.
 

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i dont have a method yet. maybe i never will. i just walk up and try to make them smile ASAP. a little ****y funny, and pretty much trying not to come off as needy. then i ask for a number somehow.
 

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All depends on the situation and i didn't understand your 5 point system so i would just post what i do. Note some times or most of the times I change this up on the fly and also each part is made up of different stuff that i do, for exampe in Attract stage I won't just be C&F i'd also play games, or show her something cool, etc.

Default Method (Mystery Method M3 model) This is what I use most of the time in all situations i just cut the time for each one depending on how much time i have.
A1
A2
A3
C1
C2
C3
S1
S2
S3

Cold approach (long version) If I think she has alot of time.
1. Open
2. Attract
3. Rapport (kissed already)
4. Move
5. Phase-shift (Makeout then stop and get number)
6. Rapport
7. Leave

Cold Approach (Short version) If I don't have much time, rushing, late, etc.
1. Open
2. Attract
3. Rapport (Number close)
4. Phase shift
5. Leave

Parties/Clubs (Never been to a real 21+ club yet)
1. Open
2. Attract
3. Phaseshift (Make out)
4. Rapport (Maybe only if I see she isn't a hardcore party girl, all about calibration)
5. Leave

Thats basically the way I usually game, some times i take away stuff and sometimes i add things. Usually use Mystery method M3 model as a guide to where I am. Also may have a "cheat sheet" that I would look at if i find myself lost of words or long silence. Besides that most of my stuff is Natural and on the fly, just using the elements in each phase. All about calibration that will help you when to do things.

Also keep in mind your just seeing 1 word things for what i do, I am by no means a robot when i speaking saying exact things that aren't congruent. I may be throwing in Kino or leaving to gain some social proof. Maybe doing some mini cold read, or some C&F its just a model i follow. Like i wouldn't do C&F when i'm in rapport.
 
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