"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is your opinion about keeping cash in your house safe?

Who Dares Win

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I doubt that the guys from the states are concerned about their central bank or national banks to steal money from them through cyprus style legal robberies but Im sure the guys from Europe are.

I hear the IMF suggested to the european banks to enforce a withdrawal of 10% from european cash depots in order to fix the situation of many countries.

Being the european parliament a parassite antidemocrat lobbist association elected from the citizens in a very limited part, there is the chance that some serious sh1t will be done.

At this point I was considering to withdraw from my bank account slowly most of my money and keep euro cash in my safe, after all if the gov cant see it, it cannot steal it....in 2013 Im more concerned about my gov than burglars...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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I never liked safes for cash, unless the safe is completely hidden under the floor or behind a wall, and only you know where it is. Once a safe is discovered, it is only as good as its mounting.

I always liked to hide cash in places that a thief is not going to look, like in old books and pockets of clothes hung up in a closet. You can get a lot more creative, depending upon how easily you need to access the money. Most appliances come apart rather easily and have enough space to hide cash inside them. If you live in a house with walls made of gypsum board, aka drywall, it is very easy to cut a hole in a wall, then patch and re-paint the area so it cannot be seen.

I wouldn't bury money in a place anyone else had access to, but if you have a secure area like a dirt crawlspace under your house, the right way to bury money is to roll it up and place it in a piece of pvc pipe, then glue an end cap on each end with pvc glue. The cash will store nicely in the ground for much longer than any of us will live.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I doubt that the guys from the states are concerned about their central bank or national banks to steal money from them through cyprus style legal robberies but Im sure the guys from Europe are.

I hear the IMF suggested to the european banks to enforce a withdrawal of 10% from european cash depots in order to fix the situation of many countries.

Being the european parliament a parassite antidemocrat lobbist association elected from the citizens in a very limited part, there is the chance that some serious sh1t will be done.

At this point I was considering to withdraw from my bank account slowly most of my money and keep euro cash in my safe, after all if the gov cant see it, it cannot steal it....in 2013 Im more concerned about my gov than burglars...
Where were you a couple of days back? I hope you weren't ruining the Holidays!
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I never liked safes for cash, unless the safe is completely hidden under the floor or behind a wall, and only you know where it is. Once a safe is discovered, it is only as good as its mounting.

I always liked to hide cash in places that a thief is not going to look, like in old books and pockets of clothes hung up in a closet. You can get a lot more creative, depending upon how easily you need to access the money. Most appliances come apart rather easily and have enough space to hide cash inside them. If you live in a house with walls made of gypsum board, aka drywall, it is very easy to cut a hole in a wall, then patch and re-paint the area so it cannot be seen.

I wouldn't bury money in a place anyone else had access to, but if you have a secure area like a dirt crawlspace under your house, the right way to bury money is to roll it up and place it in a piece of pvc pipe, then glue an end cap on each end with pvc glue. The cash will store nicely in the ground for much longer than any of us will live.

Safe's? I didn't know peple still used those these days. I always thought those had more to do with shop owners.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I doubt that the guys from the states are concerned about their central bank or national banks to steal money from them through cyprus style legal robberies but Im sure the guys from Europe are.

I hear the IMF suggested to the european banks to enforce a withdrawal of 10% from european cash depots in order to fix the situation of many countries.

Being the european parliament a parassite antidemocrat lobbist association elected from the citizens in a very limited part, there is the chance that some serious sh1t will be done.

At this point I was considering to withdraw from my bank account slowly most of my money and keep euro cash in my safe, after all if the gov cant see it, it cannot steal it....in 2013 Im more concerned about my gov than burglars...

Your home is the best place, if not expect your account to be wiped out in the near future. This will happen to everyone all over the country.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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