What is your greatest fear, DJs?

[TheFapPrince]

What is the deepest, scariest thing you have in your mind?

Mine is the fear of being left alone physically.

I'm okay with having no friends and such, but the feeling of being isolated or locked alone still scare me, especially when I encountered it in my dreams.

 

[SamTheHobit]

This may sound weird, but never finding a virgin girlfriend and settling with a used up girl.

I actually had an anxiety attack about it once.

 

[HedoRick]

West Virginia

 

[backbreaker]

Rats


petrified of rats.

 

[Mr Wright]

Pregnancy and living with regret

 

[mike465]

Yup similar, never finding a virgin.
That and the dark

 

[VladPatton]

That this forum will disappear one day and everyone will loose their green squares.

 

[nismo-4]

Getting married to a gold-digger, and I live in Atlanta, the gold-digger capital of the south.

 

[FairShake]

Heights. I can't even stand up on my roof without feeling queasy and I have a two story rowhouse.

Also big dogs and bosses scare me at first although not when I get used to them.

 

[Skyline]

Dogs. Not the small ones but the medium and big size ones terrify me.

 

[Big Nuts]

Smelly vaginas.....instant wood death!

 

[Upside]

Being betrayed, back stabbed, screwed over, etc. Whatever variation of being cheated on, divorced, raising someone else's child, etc. Even though I'm in no way, shape, or form even close to have anything like that happening to me; reading stories of guys who marry and have kids with virgin, religious, introverted wives that run off with the kids scare me to death. I did want wife and kids, and the red pill has me looking the other way.

Also, FYI people scared of dogs, bigger dogs tend to be the gentler breeds (look up Small Dog Syndrome). Behavior of your dog is 90% of how you raise and train it. Some of it is out of your control, but a 100 pound dog can be raised to love cats and the yappy shih tzu will destroy everything you love.

However, you SHOULD be wary of approaching stranger's dogs. Some dogs, regardless of breed, react very poorly to people who try and pet them or interact with them right away. Some just become scared, other become aggressive. Leave how you meet a dog up to the owner as they [should] know best. Dogs sniff you out for a reason. Let em before you rub his/her tummy.

tl;dr dogs are awesome

 

[TheFapPrince]

I love dogs

Except for this type: http://www.justdogbreeds.com/bulldog.html

It looks kinda stup!d.

 

[FairShake]

Also, FYI people scared of dogs, bigger dogs tend to be the gentler breeds (look up Small Dog Syndrome). Behavior of your dog is 90% of how you raise and train it. Some of it is out of your control, but a 100 pound dog can be raised to love cats and the yappy shih tzu will destroy everything you love.

Call it a remnant of hood living. Where I grew up a lot of guys were into dog fighting. They trained their pitbulls and presas to be mean and to attack. Those dogs can seriously injure you. I've seen them bite the hell out of people.

Alot of them were abandoned after their fighting days and they would wreak havoc in the neighborhood until animal control got them or someone shot them. It's a matter of how you grew up around dogs I guess.

 

[synergy1]

living a life that I consider mundane, boring or mediocre.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I must say, I have a fear of big or medium dogs myself although I notice I'm just at the starting point of overcoming.

I think it might stem from when my mother would take us kids over to my grandmother's house and leave us outside to play. We couldn't come back into the house except for the bathroom, and these big dogs would be running around terrorizing us (for all I know, maybe these dogs just wanted to play with us).

I used to have my sisters go around and pick any berries they could find and leave them out in upside-down jar lids in the hope that some were poison and the dogs would eat them.

And you guys thought that life in the 'hood was rough?!?

This is my theory of my phobia, anyway. All my adult life I have had a major distrust of dogs. I never called it a "fear", but in our little group therapy session here I'm ready to admit that.

I honestly can't think of anything else I actually fear. That might be because I've always had a show-biz career and once you get over the terror of stage fright, you learn that you can plow through anything.

But now that I think of it, In the past I have actually feared women flying off the handle. My mother was very unstable and tended towards violence, and one time she choked my when I was a little toddler till I blacked out. When I grew up, and even in the business world, whenever I saw a woman having an emotional freak-out my physiology would go into a life-or-death state. I would start breathing heavy, my face would flush and I would sometimes even shake. A woman's freak-out actually told my subconscious that I was in a life or death situation. Actually this site has helped me to get that out of my system. Now I give full ownership to the one who is freaking out, male or female. I still might find a freak-out a bit troubling at off times, but it no longer triggers the "fight-or-flight" mechanism in me. I had this syndrome until well into my 40s.

Interesting topic.

 

[Chamber36]

Quite interesting.

Glad I'm not afraid of dogs. I am afraid of heights but I went bungeejumping once because I am an adrenaline junkie.

My fear is being stuck, tied down, a slave to the system, unable to migrate. Unable to live happily.

I don't have a fear of not finding a virgin. I've never taken anyone's virginity... I find I can have pretty good vibes with certain women even if they've had plenty of relationships. Younger isn't always better. I'm only 23, I know a young 18 yr old is easy to mold, but something 26+ can still be fvcking sexy.

As long as I can make money, drive around and fvck girls, I will be happy.

 

[BigSmooth]

1. Having life past me by.

Ex. Waking up one day and everyone you know has moved on, all your skills are irrelevant, and society has dumped you on the side of the road.


2. Lying on my death bed and having regrets.

 

[Olivia]

Djs, I have come to a moment in life where I no longer have feelings, including fear. Djs, Today is a special day somehow, yet it is a very mundane kind of way. From today I have realised I no longer fear, not even death. Usually that is the last fear we human being have. But as far as I am concerned, I am interested in death. It is a very weird day, but this is the reality now.

Djs, I dont know if there is something wrong with me, I simply am interested in death. They say if there is no death, there will be no life and I agree completely. Just think about it for a moment, if we could take this life for granted, which means no death to anybody, would you try to enjoy life to the fullest... Would you try to archieve so many things fast 'before you die' if you had an eternal life.

Right now I can relate to that, I live an eternal kind of life. Now I no longer fear death, I no longer rush things, I no longer desire. I no longer create trouble for myself. There is a peace within arosen in me which no peace ever has had the same quality as this one. It is something special. Can you understand me? Can you relate to me somehow? Even if a little bit..

Djs, I am currently in highschool, second year. I am not sure what it is called, I don't live in america. In school, I see people around me stressing over exams, over things in class. I see them having a hard life, living a hard way. I see anxiety all over their faces. Now if you compare me to ordinary students, you will be surprised. The way they say I study in one word is rebellion. Yes a rebel, I can understand that, I never listen to teachers.. In fact, I fight and ask every single question, such question that makes the teacher go nuts. They cannot answer my questions. These are the questions. For example, I will go on and on asking one simple questio: "Why are you bothering with me so much, that I cannot even sit here simply being quiet? I no longer desire to study those stupid, unnecessary things. My goal is not to become a robot, I have a very clear goal: Just to pass this high school so I can go to any college, and I mean it when I say any. I can be rebel in any school, and that is my joy, that is my hobby. I don´t have any nonsense ideas which I should become, I never stress over those stupid ideas. I will live like this, just like I am. I will be a rebel in any school I enter to." I once enjoyed it so far, that I even made the whole class go with me. I know deep down these students are fed up with the school system, yet somehow they stress, they try to manage to be successfull, because from the very childhood they have been conditioned not to create trouble, just to be a little puppy, a robot with no freedom. I have myself lived that kind of life, I got sick, and I did something about it. Now, I am happy. I will stop very soon.. because once I start speaking..

I dont know how to stop. Today is a day I have decided. Decided to no longer have any fear in life. Now this is beautiful. There are these little unnecessary things like stds, drugs, which need not to enter my life, but as far as getting them is concerned, I do not fear. They will be simply unneccesary troubles, hindarances. They cannot stop my rebelliousness, They cannot stop my joy. They might take my life sooner than expected, sooner than normally, but that has no significance. Whetever I live 10 years more or 60 years more does not matter. I am excited to enter the afterworld.

Now there is hell and paradise. That is pure nonsense. I heard from the Holy Bible that there will be 16 year old virgins made of gold that doesn't age in paradise. Now what kind of life is that? In fact, If I could choose, I would choose hell. Now, at last, there are real people in Hell. In fact, if we look deeply, the people from hell are very extraordinary. Jesus willl be there, Buddha will be there, Socrates, Aristoteles will be there. Paton will be there, and all of us here who are Djs have done something that they include in the sin-list. We will all be there, so prepare! Now they say that you get anything you want in paradise. What is the point? I am living that life right now. I have no desire, which means I have everything I want. And do you want to know what kind of life I have? If I dropped my being, my rebelliousness, I would simply drop death. Not physically, but as far as joy is concerned, I would simply drop my joy out of my life completely. My experience is that: If there is something to archieve, there is joy. And if there is nothing to archieve, there is no adventure, if you get anything you ever want, you will simply kill yourself. Just think, if you desired a car, and simply it is there right infront of your eyes or if you desired a castle, it is suddenly there right in fron of your eyes, or if you desired a billion bucks and it suddenly appears in fron of you.. now it doen't take long before you get bored with yourself, maybe a day, not even that maybe an hour, maybe half an hour depending on how intelligent you are. If you are stupid you will be filled with so much joy that you will go on accumulating, never getting bored. But if you are an intelligent being, you will see the point. There is no point! Not point to live anymore. What will you do? You will commit suicide.

Djs, this has gone long enough.

 

[Drook]

West Virginia

I'm living in your worst nightmare. WV isn't even that bad it just has a lot of rednecks and ugly chicks.