"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is your game like?

Tha Realnezz

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I'm just curious to know the different styles you guys use when PU'ng girls.


I already stated that I focus more on visual & attitude more than anything else in that other thread.I'll expand on this idea later on.

Right now,i'd like to ask you guys about your game,your style,etc.

Where do you pick up?

What do your conversations revolve on?

What is your gimmick or hook?What makes women attracted to you?

What type of women do you go looking for?

Are you succesful or unsuccesful?

What is your ultimate goal ?...getting laid,getting laid by 9-10's,having a stable of women,getting money,an LTR?..

I know this has been done before but maybe we can lighten up the mood here a lil' bit & at the same time try to help people.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stubbornlights

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sounds like an entertaining thread.

I pick up at college. In the hallways, mostly. Out about campus. Seldom in town. Sometimes at live music. Coffee places and mellow hangouts.

Conversations revolve around music, art, literature, friendships, philosophy of relationships, and to keep them guessing, the most silly, ridiculous things I can think of. Sex is alluded to, but seldom directly discussed.

Gimmick/Hook/Attraction thing is comprised of total unpredictability, my refusal of social tendencies (ie: discredit and ignore standing hierarchies, notions of cool. I like to make a habit of making the coolest people in a situation (unless they're friends) look like complete dorks and fools.) Mainly, unique conversation, indifferent attitude coupled with rare glimpses of sensitivity (thoughtful, not AFC like).

I look for different women; those who are really into the arts, but aren't pretencious. I'm a sucker for the quiet, withdrawn ones, the really cute one's that it makes no sense that they spend so much time by themselves. I love meeting them and surprising them with outlooks and lifestyles that are similar to theirs; I love that type of girl. Some unbelievable HB9-10's out there like this.

I'm successful in the wrong way. I have horrible luck in that I tend to attract far too clingy girls, or really rowdy, wild ones. Lots of girls I don't like wind up falling for me. Too many sketchy situations. I'm unsuccessful in the worst way; I have a nasty habit of messing things up (afc-ish) when I'm around girls I adore. It's hard not to be nervous when you're with someone really special. But getting better.

Goal is a LTR; I'm not into random hookups and stuff like that. I'd just like to meet a really neat girl, anything else doesn't matter too much. I'm not into having a 'stable of women', or hunting for one night stands. But it's fun to meet lots of women.
 

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I've noticed that too.The laidback,sarcasm comedy gets the quiet ones and the crazy ones..

I have freinds with the same issues.
 

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Bump...damn.
 

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I dont have game. I dont do c&f. I dont seduce. I dont know magic tricks. I dont use hooks or props.

I simply let things move at their own pace. Like a girl? Ask her out. Think she's annoying? Say goodbye.

Am I successful? Not by any measures, except my own. I've met the most wonderful girls, the craziest girls, and girls who simply gave me new experiences. (Note that this isn't an invitation for necrophiles or **** lovers to email me)

My ultimate goal? To EXPERIENCE.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IS|Reinhart

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i LOVE life and since we are too over socialized i like pointing social phobias and saying something very crazy!

Some of my favourites approaches:
"Hey can u teach how you do this?How can u make look at ur face i do not want to talk to u! I'm too hot for u to get me! i do not care if anything happens in this world its not worth my attension!" Basically acusing the bit ch behaving she is too hot for u! They usually crack up

Or on a phone:

so its monday i do not have any plans on sunday afternoon. So lets go rockclimbing?
She: Ok sure call me on saturday
me: hey i know how it sounds! I will call u and u will ignore my call and won't call me back and it will happen i will waste i sunday afternoon in vein.
She: Haha call me! and u will see

Or on a phone
How about i pick you up on friday 6 o clock, and we go ice skating
She: ok fine but i prefer driving myself
Me: what? What did u say are u speaking russian with me?

Am i succesful - Yes. Only my confidence and accent allows me to pull this sh1t

My goal - date a girl I want!
 

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Not good

I fell into the cold approaches trap:
I cold approach like CRAZY, usually asking "Are you single?" 99% of the time I crash and burn. The few numbers I get don't pan out.

No rapport+lack of sexual vibe=no ass.

Insanity=Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results
 

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My style is more laidback.I don't do cold approaches like that anymore and it's a rare thing for me.

When I do them I least wait for eye contact first.

I just focus in on wardrobe and staying in shape.And when i start to hunt I put out a sexual vibe.A more serious,I wanna fawk you B!tch! type of bl.

And women just give me signals and even come talk to me and I push up on them from there.

My convo's get to sex asap.

But I tend to let them talk and keep it very light-hearted at first.I don't think women want men to open up too much for whatever reason.I do speak on my personal **** but not TOO much.I try to stick to subjects most women can relate too.

I try to make them laugh but no corny over the top stuff.I bring in the Kino as quick as possible but like approaches I wait for the right exact moment.

I don't really need social proof and I mostly deal with women all day.

I'd say I'm 80%-to damn-near 90% succefsul.
 

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Re: Not good

Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
I fell into the cold approaches trap:
I cold approach like CRAZY, usually asking "Are you single?" 99% of the time I crash and burn. The few numbers I get don't pan out.

No rapport+lack of sexual vibe=no ass.

Insanity=Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results

Read my post here,maybe that can help you.I think you should try to fish for eye contact first and positive bl.

Try working on your look also.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz

What do your conversations revolve on?

What is your gimmick or hook?What makes women attracted to you?

What type of women do you go looking for?


What is your ultimate goal ?...getting laid,getting laid by 9-10's,having a stable of women,getting money,an LTR?..

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Oh yeah..

I look for at least 8's and up but I do bag ok looking girls on the regular if they have nice bodies or just cool to be around.

My gimmick really is being me.I'm just natural with it.

I know girls wanna **** me and usually act that way.But if i feel that a chic might get offended by certain ****.I lay back.


My ultimate goal is to have a stable of at least 6 fine ass women & getting favors out of them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Distant Light

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My game: I have been slacking past 2 weeks been actually trying to do good in school. Anyway


My style and game
Basically I follow m3 model. Take all the elements in each stage and just freestyle off of them. (Also have some Canned material)

Example
Opener: Would you date a guy in a wheel chair? and bust on her for a bit.

Then probably C&F or go into a Story, followed by roleplaying and cold reading. Juggling these around for a bit, put in some kino.

After do hope theory, Push/pull, screening, Compliance test, etc. Also throw in some canned material such as lying game, Trust test, fuvk murder marry.

Then just act how I usually act and gain rapport (Non AFC conversation) Alittle push and pull, and build a connection, kino escalation.

YAll get the point.

Where do I pick up?
Everywhere but since I practicing until I get out of HS I mainly just try new stuff on these HS girls. But when i first started was going hard on the cold approaches. I found those the best.

My conversation usually about anything only things i really avoid is hardcore sex (anal, bondage, etc) politics, negative stories (people dieing, car accident, etc)

What makes girls attracted to me?
The thing that gets them attracted the most is my game, I'm like the only non needy kid in my social circle. (Girl pointed that out) Then My looks also helps me, have been considered pretty good looking.:p

Back in oct and nov I was very successful but now got alittle lazy because of school and stuff, get discouraged to go out and approach some days.

My ulitmate goals?
- Have alot of girls (2 MLTR, 4 FBs)
- Rotation?, Got this idea from BradP who keeps girls in rotation and currently manages 8 girls, So you know I want to do something similar
- 3somes and 4somes
- lay 8s and up only
- Go to all the major cities and Lay girls
- Have LTRs in a few different cities that way I would always have a place to stay when i travel:D

Note some of these stuff most likely won't happen for a number of reasons but there still my goals.
 

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Where do you pick up?
I approach anywhere....I haven't picked any girl up yet.
What do your conversations revolve on?
If I have time I try to run with a tangent. Usually the girls are on the go, hence my "Are you single" line.
What is your gimmick or hook?What makes women attracted to you?
Eh, not much of a gimmick. I dab into some ****y/funny, but it's terribly forced and very ingenuine.
What type of women do you go looking for?
Single, preferrably w/out kids, at least semi-attractive.
Are you succesful or unsuccesful?
Unsucessful, mostly
What is your ultimate goal ?...getting laid,getting laid by 9-10's,having a stable of women,getting money,an LTR?..
Just to gain experience with women in general, and to enjoy it.
 

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completly 'indirect game' is my BEST game soo far, whenever i walk into ANY new enviroment- it's like i am on 'display' and i carry myself a certain way, like i am don't really care about anything but also like i own the place. Then i notice all the girls i am naturally attracted to. i usually make either eye contact or get in their immediate enviroment. If they don't notice me, i make myself noticed. It's suprising how many people turn around when you stare directly at the back of their heads:D i either hold eye contact & smile or i'll just say 'hi' , i usually just 'ride the vibe' long enough to number close. I can usually read what angle works best with them,but usually i play the 'stud boy' role- they don't care it's all BS anyways and as long as we are having fun thats all that matters.
I am trying to actually use a set routine so i can become better at it;opinion openers,story telling, CF-but right now, my direct game sucks because it takes more concious effort then just rolling with the punches- but in time it's somethng that can be perfected IMO.I think of it as solid game versus pure improv...

ALOT of girls still fall for the whole Bad Boy image i throw out at them- most likely because it's really not just an 'image'..it's just how i am - i was actually those 'outcasted' and made fun of loner types back in the days, i just learned how to run with it and make it work for me :)

as for my ultimate goal? to fully appretiate woman, but no longer need them :up:
 
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