"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What is your favorite cologne to bait women?
- Thread starter Fatal Jay
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I prefer things like Drakkar Noir, Spice Bomb, and Paco Rabanne (the original one in the green bottle not the new 1 Million which smells more fruity).
I do not wear scents for women, I wear them for myself. I wear them because I like them. But still I get compliments for these scents mostly because they suit me and fit the kind of presence and personality (dark masculine bad boy) that I have.
Thus choose a scent that suits you... You stylish and "metro" then wear some kind of more modern scent, you an athletic guy then wear something sporty, ect. I think that the scent should work with the image.
Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
Ronaldo7
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 15, 2013
- Messages
- 802
- Reaction score
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Go for Aventus, Green Irish Tweed, Silver Mountain Water, MI or the new tea-based fragrances.
Also, Terre D'Hermes, Tom Ford, Gucci Sport, Bond No.9, Chanel Allure Homme Sport, YSL La Nuit.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Ball Sweatt
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Axe usually only last 2hrs, whereas quality colognes last 4-12hrs.
I have Axe Peace and Apollo... But, a couple of sprays of my little bottle of Tommy Hilfiger is 12+ hours or more!
How often do you reapply Axe?
Tenacity
Banned
- Joined
- Jun 23, 2014
- Messages
- 3,890
- Reaction score
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I just spray it all over for the most part. Not really sure how long it lasts but women usually compliment me on the smell. So once I find something that works, I just roll with it because cologne is a very complicated thing. You can apply too much, you can use the wrong one, etc., and it could be a disaster.
One thing about Axe is that I'm saving a ton of money and it gets me the compliments I need.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Thanks, I may try that Axe flavor you mentioned!
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Bond No. 9 Scent of Peace for Him
Creed Green Irish Tweed
Both expensive colognes but both are unique, you will very rarely find another person who rocks this cologne. It's original.
GoodOne123
Senior Don Juan
Unlike most colognes the smell is pleasing, even after wearing it for 6+ hours. Masculine yet unique.
Every woman who has smelt it on me has liked it.
PantyWhisperer
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 21, 2016
- Messages
- 536
- Reaction score
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
