guittarjedi
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Come on guys. Let's have a civilized discussion, not a flame war.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What is your definition of a slut??
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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lol nice way of saying YOUR NEVER GOING TO KNOW WHAT SHE DOESNT WANT YOU TOO...... so you got nothing you clueless dead sh!t?.Originally posted by Silverback82
if you have to ask, you'll never understand
We'll just strike it up to you "pretending" you know all her dirty little secrets shall we? Because if you even try and tell me you ASK a chick about her sexual past your going to look like even more of a tool.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
A slvt is a girl with no self respect. Giving it up on the first night for example. The girls that do this are usually AWs who flirt with anyone and do cheat often. When they're not in their *committed* relationship, they make their rounds with several guys in a short time only to justify it as finding the right guy .. or .. better yet, she's going through a bad phase in her life.
Bottom line, it's the female that controls how much sex a guy gets which according to her menstural period is not supposed to be all the time. Slvts are girls who do it ir-regardless just for the attention any and most of the time. Men are external, women are internal. It's in a man's nature to be more outright and in a women's nature to be more selective.
You can spin it any way you want, but that's how it is. If you're banging low self-respect girls, should re-evaluate yourself and your self-esteem with the opposite sex. It goes both ways - that is to say if you're a chocloate covered manslut.
Bottom line, it's the female that controls how much sex a guy gets which according to her menstural period is not supposed to be all the time. Slvts are girls who do it ir-regardless just for the attention any and most of the time. Men are external, women are internal. It's in a man's nature to be more outright and in a women's nature to be more selective.
You can spin it any way you want, but that's how it is. If you're banging low self-respect girls, should re-evaluate yourself and your self-esteem with the opposite sex. It goes both ways - that is to say if you're a chocloate covered manslut.
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
1. Any girl who will have sex with a man the first night that she meets him. (not that it's a bad thing, that's just my working definition)
2. Nope.
3. Nope.
4. Probably not.
But, really, who cares? I mean, if you like a broad and she's good in the sack (and not carrying an STD or anything strange like that), then what do you care where she got her skills from? Just enjoy it.
1. Haha, pretty much dont know how to answer. I'm getting tired of labels.
2. Used to, but not anymore. It's HER past then why bother? And in fact, I understand now that my obsession about this was because I thought that I couldn't attract so much women, so I wanted to make sure that she couldn't attract so much men too because I couldn't afford competition -- insecurity in its finest.
3. No. She should, not me. If I took the courage to approach and get with her is because I think she is at least attractive, and if I end up f*cking her it's because she got my approval. And I am what matters to me.
-- we ALL have different conditions in different moments. Like when you have a lot of women, you get picky. When you're plain EMPTY, you have that dreams with a fat girl... yuck! haha4. No. Women like it more. Seriously.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Silverback82
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haha angry clueless chump
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I'll give you a couple of days to come up with a logical argument of how a chump like you can tell shes a "slvt" hows that sound?. Cause your comebacks are looking pretty lame at the moment.Originally posted by Silverback82
haha angry clueless chump
Or you can just swallow your pride and admit your a douche who really has no idea.
1.What is your definition of a slut?
A slut is a woman who is as sexually premiscuos as a man. Equality be dammned - nature has defined different sexual drives. That doesn't mean it's necessarilly a bad thing - just abnormal.
2.Do you care how many sexual partners your girl has had?
Actually yeah I do. I mean it doesn't stop me doing stuff. But I don't like the idea of going out with a girl who's been around the block a few times. I'd have sex with a girl like that...but not a relationship. I'm sure my view on this will change with age.
If she's only had a few partners it doesn't matter that much.
3.Do you care about the caliber of guys your girl has had sex with?
Not at all. If i'm having sex with a girl why should I care about the competition? There is none!
4.Is sex the same for women as it is for men?
Women tend to be more emotionally caught up in sex. As a consequence they love it much much more than us. A whole other level. Plus they get much more pleasure through it. What gives more sexual gratification? A ****oris, g-spot, and multiple orgasms, or a penis and an ejaculation?
If they get so much more enjoyment from it, shouldn't they get much less of it to balance things out? :crackup:
A slut is a woman who is as sexually premiscuos as a man. Equality be dammned - nature has defined different sexual drives. That doesn't mean it's necessarilly a bad thing - just abnormal.
2.Do you care how many sexual partners your girl has had?
Actually yeah I do. I mean it doesn't stop me doing stuff. But I don't like the idea of going out with a girl who's been around the block a few times. I'd have sex with a girl like that...but not a relationship. I'm sure my view on this will change with age.
If she's only had a few partners it doesn't matter that much.
3.Do you care about the caliber of guys your girl has had sex with?
Not at all. If i'm having sex with a girl why should I care about the competition? There is none!
4.Is sex the same for women as it is for men?
Women tend to be more emotionally caught up in sex. As a consequence they love it much much more than us. A whole other level. Plus they get much more pleasure through it. What gives more sexual gratification? A ****oris, g-spot, and multiple orgasms, or a penis and an ejaculation?
If they get so much more enjoyment from it, shouldn't they get much less of it to balance things out? :crackup:
spitkicker
Don Juan
There is no such thing as a slut. Girls who are "sluts" are just less conditioned by society...something we can all look up to.
Anyhow, i think that a slut is someone who has more sexual options than you do. So if you're a dude whose landed 2 girls, and she's had sex with 8 guys, you will call her a slut.
Sex on the first night doesn't mean she is a slut, it means that she's not afraid of her sexuality/ the guy has some tight game!
Anyhow, i think that a slut is someone who has more sexual options than you do. So if you're a dude whose landed 2 girls, and she's had sex with 8 guys, you will call her a slut.
Sex on the first night doesn't mean she is a slut, it means that she's not afraid of her sexuality/ the guy has some tight game!
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Well said, at 20 years of age your already leaps and bounds ahead of most guys.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
guittarjedi
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Chew on this statistic. Women who have the LOWEST self esteem have the MOST sex where as men who have the highest self esteem have the most sex. What does this say about the differences between the sexes?
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blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
I only fck good looking guys.
The perfect 10s with a gorgeous face, ridiculous bodies, ripped abs, perfect p-nis and awesome personalities. Basically I only fck models.
These men are VERY HARD to find, YET I'M FCKIN THEM!
Ya can't blame me nor call me a "slut" since I haven't been laid in 6 months. I'm picky
The perfect 10s with a gorgeous face, ridiculous bodies, ripped abs, perfect p-nis and awesome personalities. Basically I only fck models.
These men are VERY HARD to find, YET I'M FCKIN THEM!
Ya can't blame me nor call me a "slut" since I haven't been laid in 6 months. I'm picky
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Guys with high self esteem must be banging a WHOLE lot of "sluts"?
I wouldnt be putting too much stock in that statistic personally, something tells me chicks with high self esteem love the c@ck and get banged just as much as there "LSE" sisters.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
I still dont understand why people get bent out of shape about a girl who has alot of sex partners...I mean, if shes getting G Trains ran on her and getting smutted out thats one thing, those are just jump offs, you hit and thats it...But if shes just having one on one sex with guys and shes being safe and her buisness isnt in the street like that, whats the big deal? Sh1t, girls can get sex much easier than dudes, when they get hot and wet you think they are gonna just sit there and get themselves off when all they gotta do is press up on some dude and she will get some?
So Im with Titty on this one...Its just a matter of the male ego because we want to think that were the only one who hit, but thats what puzzy is for, dikks go in there, its not like you are the only man in the area...
So Im with Titty on this one...Its just a matter of the male ego because we want to think that were the only one who hit, but thats what puzzy is for, dikks go in there, its not like you are the only man in the area...
Some people, male or female, ... hide.. their insecurities with sex. Others "hiding devices" include drugs, surgery, excercise, whatever.
Some women with low self esteem happen puff puff their insecurities with sex. Since it gives them value bla bla bla. That STILL doesn't make them "sluts". The word slut means nothing. A ***** is a woman who gets paid for sex. Slut is just a word. So, I find the "low self esteem" issue non-relevant here.
Get worried if she has low self esteem, not if she has had tons of sex. If you two are in a exclusive relationship, and she sleeps around, dump that *****.
What is my definition of a slut?
It's not on my dictionary. It's on everybody else's though.
Get worried if she has low self esteem. NOT if she has tons of sex.
Some women with low self esteem happen puff puff their insecurities with sex. Since it gives them value bla bla bla. That STILL doesn't make them "sluts". The word slut means nothing. A ***** is a woman who gets paid for sex. Slut is just a word. So, I find the "low self esteem" issue non-relevant here.
Get worried if she has low self esteem, not if she has had tons of sex. If you two are in a exclusive relationship, and she sleeps around, dump that *****.
What is my definition of a slut?
It's not on my dictionary. It's on everybody else's though.
Get worried if she has low self esteem. NOT if she has tons of sex.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
Ok, you guys that are *pro-slvt* go ahead and make a stable LTR with a girl that's had a very promiscuis past. Go ahead and make a relationship with her if she gives it up the first night. You'll find she's a cheater and not worth her salt. In short, she has very little respect for herself. If she can't respect herself, she can't respect you and make a good commitment.
I'm surprised at you being age 30 (.)(.) - you should know better.
I do want to run into girls more like blueangel around where i live - that's what i'm looking for right now. The girl who doesn't sleep around much but would be willing to put out if her standards are met.
I'm surprised at you being age 30 (.)(.) - you should know better.
I do want to run into girls more like blueangel around where i live - that's what i'm looking for right now. The girl who doesn't sleep around much but would be willing to put out if her standards are met.
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And you will know about her sexual past how?
Exactly, you'll only know what shes willing to tell you, NOTHING MORE which makes your entire post moot and time wasted.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Hahaha! Thought there was a gay on here till I saw the poster.Originally posted by blueangel83
I only fck good looking guys.
The perfect 10s with a gorgeous face, ridiculous bodies, ripped abs, perfect p-nis and awesome personalities. Basically I only fck models.
These men are VERY HARD to find, YET I'M FCKIN THEM!
Ya can't blame me nor call me a "slut" since I haven't been laid in 6 months. I'm picky
my defination is a girl who doesnt respect her body and uses it in ways to get her attention IE:
dressing like a hoe, showing her body off to get attention
flashin ppl
sucking cooock and titty fvcking
you get the point!
dressing like a hoe, showing her body off to get attention
flashin ppl
sucking cooock and titty fvcking
you get the point!
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by guittarjedi
1.What is your definition of a slut?
2.Do you care how many sexual partners your girl has had?
3.Do you care about the caliber of guys your girl has had sex with?
4.Is sex the same for women as it is for men?
1.I dont even use that term on women. Why complain about who put out cause they enjoy sex. If she's responsible about it, then let her be her. I would'nt have a LTR with. But I dont want an LTR anyway.
2. Nope.
3.Nope, why should I. Do I win a prize if I end up being the best lover the girl has ever had by the end of her life? I dont care about Rick, Dave, and Bob and I'd let her know that too.
4. We're both human, and we have our needs. I say live and let live.
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