Hey Guys.
Ive been around these boards for quite a long time now. its been good to me when i first started like 4 years ago. For those that are interested, after i graduated from school i got a job and been working pretty hardcore for the last 2 years. During that time i was out of the dating scene and strictly concentrating on my career. I still kept my game sharp by going out to the bars and hitting the clubs. I met some new interesting women over the years but i mainly kept it strictly platonic. There never was that one girl that really sparked my interets.
Fast foward to today, since i was out of the game for a bit, i decided to put myself through the DJ boot camp as a refresher for myself. To those that are still contemplating it, stop thinking and just do it, its worth the time you put into it. i started to hit the dating scene again.
Last month i met this awesome girl through a friend (turns out i met this girl like one year ago but had no memory of it.) We have been dating on and off over the last month but it really turned up a notch over the last couple of weeks.
Things are really fantastic with this girl and things are progressing very nicely. She is definitley someone i would consider having a relationship with.
BUT...for today for some reason, i started to thinking to myself..."holy crap..ive never been in a relationship with a girl that lasted more than 2 weeks". I started to do some heavy thinking to myself and the main question i kept asking myself is
"what does it mean to be in a relationship?"
I realize i had no real answer for myself. So that is the question i pose to the people on this forum. What do you define as a "relationship" with the opposite sex? I really hope for some intelligent responses from the educated individuals here. Maybe im just thinking too much into it and should just roll with it as it comes to me..but i figure there is no harm in asking.
Thanks.
Ive been around these boards for quite a long time now. its been good to me when i first started like 4 years ago. For those that are interested, after i graduated from school i got a job and been working pretty hardcore for the last 2 years. During that time i was out of the dating scene and strictly concentrating on my career. I still kept my game sharp by going out to the bars and hitting the clubs. I met some new interesting women over the years but i mainly kept it strictly platonic. There never was that one girl that really sparked my interets.
Fast foward to today, since i was out of the game for a bit, i decided to put myself through the DJ boot camp as a refresher for myself. To those that are still contemplating it, stop thinking and just do it, its worth the time you put into it. i started to hit the dating scene again.
Last month i met this awesome girl through a friend (turns out i met this girl like one year ago but had no memory of it.) We have been dating on and off over the last month but it really turned up a notch over the last couple of weeks.
Things are really fantastic with this girl and things are progressing very nicely. She is definitley someone i would consider having a relationship with.
BUT...for today for some reason, i started to thinking to myself..."holy crap..ive never been in a relationship with a girl that lasted more than 2 weeks". I started to do some heavy thinking to myself and the main question i kept asking myself is
"what does it mean to be in a relationship?"
I realize i had no real answer for myself. So that is the question i pose to the people on this forum. What do you define as a "relationship" with the opposite sex? I really hope for some intelligent responses from the educated individuals here. Maybe im just thinking too much into it and should just roll with it as it comes to me..but i figure there is no harm in asking.
Thanks.
