"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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What is your age range?

damnsam

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Hello All,

Would like to get some opinions on age range? What would be the youngest and oldest you'd consider in the perspective of being marriage minded? I'm 31 yrs old never been married but think it's time to start seriously searching for a potential. My ideal range is 24~30. Lol some guys might say as soon as they are legal like at age 18, but this would be for developing a long term committed relationship leading to marriage. I say 24 is the youngest I'd go because they are out of college and maybe have started their careers and hopefully matured to know what they want. 30 is the oldest I'd go because it could be 1~3 years before we actually get married and then would like to enjoy a year or two together before kids. Women after age 35 will have a higher chance of complications with pregnancy so perhaps age 30 is even too old if I want to have 2 or 3 kids?

Maybe I'm being too practical with trying to limit myself to a certain age range, but age DOES matter! Also what age would you consider a man's prime years? I'd say financially, socially, and physically 28~36.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova

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Honesty, it would probably be somewhere between 20-25. The older they get, the more damaged they get from men who have fvcked them around. The less mileage they got on them, the better.
 

Zerro

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Desdinova said:
Honesty, it would probably be somewhere between 20-25. The older they get, the more damaged they get from men who have fvcked them around. The less mileage they got on them, the better.
That and the further past 25 you go the more likely they're looking for a husband, which adds even more issues.
 

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31 to 49.

Women my age seem like grandmas to me because I'm unnaturally young-looking and have very youthful body language. My ideal range I think would be around 40.
 
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