"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is you inshights on this?

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FearlessEngineer

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Hi fellow DJs,

I am working at a company, and I don't know what to think about this situation.
The HR girl is very cold towards me (I don't have any interest in her whatsoever), on the other side she's so warm and flirty with the other coworkers.
I don't understand, I tried to chat her up a bit (I like to socialize with everybody :) )but she doesn't even hold eye contact and is not responsive.

Is there any explanation? It bugs me a lot since I want to befriend her in order to maybe get a permanent position.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El Payaso

El Payaso

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Don't try to appease to anyone that doesn't like you. It's their problem not yours.
 
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Suspens

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FearlessEngineer said:
Is there any explanation?
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Yes there could be multiple explanations:
  • She knows you are trying to get something out of her.
  • You look disgusting to her.
  • Your voice sucks and sounds weird in her opinion.
  • You creep her out.

Point is, who cares? If she doesn't want to talk to you, then don't try to change her mind. She is burying such a great opportunity to talk to you, her loss.:)
 
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Seriously. It's her problem man. Whatever it is. You don't want to get a permanent spot at a place where someone you have to deal with already has a hard on for you in the bad way.
 
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