"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What Is Wrong With This Site.

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Who you are right now is what's wrong get over it and use this stuff as a tool to the next level. This is what I got from this site. Be relieved by the fact that atleast your not with the wrong woman. And if you are dump her... improve yourself for all else depends on it.(Even a woman.)

I was just talking to a friend about him moving in with his GF. I told him it would be the end of them. Some where on this site I read that a really DJ wouldn't cause it kills the challenge factor and you become a lot less mysterious...blahblahblah. And guess what? They broke up, she needed 'space'. lol I don't feel srry for him, I told him it would happen.

Not every thing on this site is good advice, but there are plenty of jems. It's up to you to figure it out. If you are whinning about this or that, you obviously don't get it. If you post hoping that some one will like your advice so you can be the next great poster, great good luck... But in the end we'll all leave and those posts that are left will be for the next generation of DJ's to find.

So what's wrong with this site... nothing. Like AD's machine this site will pump out DJ's, but only the ones who really want to get it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So Many Ways

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Word, this site is just a tool that you can use to help yourself, that's it. It's not supposed to solve all of your problems, it's up to the individual to do that.
 
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