"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what is wrong with me

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before I say this, I swear I am not trying to be funny.. but my eye, my right eye... it twiches out of control. has been doing it for the last week. LIke out of the blue, for mintues on end, it will just twich.

It got so bad today I thought about going to the doctor, if for anything just so he can tell me my eye isn't going to fall out, i mean ,it's that bad.. damnit it's doing it again.

anyway, anyone have a clue what the hell is wrong with me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it just your eyelid or is it your actual eye, twitching uncontrollably in all different directions? :eek:
 

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Go see your general practitioner, and they will check it out. Most likely they will give you a referral to a neurologist, as it is a twitch.
 

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Maybe your eye knows you are gay and every time it sees a hot guy it winks at them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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:crackup: @^



I get the same thing sometimes on my leg. My boss had it on his eye (but his nervs ware shot long time ago....being under enormus amount of pressure to get sh1t done)


if you ever wana stop it just poke your self in the eye.
 

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considering your x-mas story and all that - it sounds psychosomatic.
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker
well.. the eyelid, but it's pretty bad
If there is no swelling, reddish color than you should be fine.
I get a sinilar thing a couple of time a year, but it was not very bad, just very uncomfotable - my eyelid was twiching.
It will go away by itself after several days or a week.
But what helped me was simply warming up it a little bit with my hand, i.e. I close the eyes, put my palm over and press it a little bit, just a little - just enough to make good contact.
Make sure your palm is not very cold.
What it does is it forced the eyelid not to twich and it warms it up a bit. After 3-7 sessions and 3-5 days it sure went away.

You may try to warm it up a bit more radically but I have never tried it.
 

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Maybe you should see your doctor?

Just a thought.

:cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I had this happen to me for about a week straight, and it went away after a while. Funny you should mention this, because my eyelid was twitching all day yesterday.
 

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Do you drink diet colas or consume Aspartame in other products? If so lay off Aspartame for a few days and see what happens. I find that if I drink too much Diet Coke I get eyelid twitching. I may give up Diet Coke altogether as I'm concerned about long-term affects of Aspartame consumption.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Go see your general practitioner, and they will check it out. Most likely they will give you a referral to a neurologist, as it is a twitch.
Create reality, the mature 15 year old here got it on the head. I bet a lot of people get that twitch... you want to know a better place though, affected by the same thing is the muscle just above my ****, you know how those old people have really fat pubic places, like their stomach is sinking? That place where your pubes grow, I get spasms there and it hurts so bad I can't stand, doctors don't know what it is.

Neurology, isn't that field of practice obsolete now? It was the study of nervousness, study of people being too anxious, about worrying about something... you would have been right to go see them since they knew the most about your feield, they was looking at it all the wrong way. I can't help you without lying about it to myself, so just close your eyes, or do some exercises.

Stop thinking like an adult, think like a child, and don't care about it. Ignore it, and it will probably go away!

Of course I am talking out of my ass here so that you give me a real answer.

PEACE!
 

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Like muscle twitching? It happens to me alot too only when im pyshically exahausted and not rested.
 

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I don't drink coke or coke products, mainly water and OJ and loads of skim milk.. some vodka here and there for good measure.. no drugs either.

I have never been to the doctor in my life.. I am petrified of hospitals. The only time I have ever been inside one, execpt when I was born, was when my little sister was born, and I had to be dragged there.

It's till doing it, and i have been under more stress than normal recently, with me having to move and redo all my work I lost, plus my mom and I are going at it pretty hard.

I figured it was stress related, but you can never be too sure. I really wanted to just make sure I didn't have ebola or something like that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Somebody once told me that it's a vitamin deficiency - B12 I think.
 
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