"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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before I say this, I swear I am not trying to be funny.. but my eye, my right eye... it twiches out of control. has been doing it for the last week. LIke out of the blue, for mintues on end, it will just twich.

It got so bad today I thought about going to the doctor, if for anything just so he can tell me my eye isn't going to fall out, i mean ,it's that bad.. damnit it's doing it again.

anyway, anyone have a clue what the hell is wrong with me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is it just your eyelid or is it your actual eye, twitching uncontrollably in all different directions? :eek:
 

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Go see your general practitioner, and they will check it out. Most likely they will give you a referral to a neurologist, as it is a twitch.
 

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Maybe your eye knows you are gay and every time it sees a hot guy it winks at them?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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:crackup: @^



I get the same thing sometimes on my leg. My boss had it on his eye (but his nervs ware shot long time ago....being under enormus amount of pressure to get sh1t done)


if you ever wana stop it just poke your self in the eye.
 

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considering your x-mas story and all that - it sounds psychosomatic.
 

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Originally posted by backbreaker
well.. the eyelid, but it's pretty bad
If there is no swelling, reddish color than you should be fine.
I get a sinilar thing a couple of time a year, but it was not very bad, just very uncomfotable - my eyelid was twiching.
It will go away by itself after several days or a week.
But what helped me was simply warming up it a little bit with my hand, i.e. I close the eyes, put my palm over and press it a little bit, just a little - just enough to make good contact.
Make sure your palm is not very cold.
What it does is it forced the eyelid not to twich and it warms it up a bit. After 3-7 sessions and 3-5 days it sure went away.

You may try to warm it up a bit more radically but I have never tried it.
 

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Maybe you should see your doctor?

Just a thought.

:cheer:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I had this happen to me for about a week straight, and it went away after a while. Funny you should mention this, because my eyelid was twitching all day yesterday.
 

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Do you drink diet colas or consume Aspartame in other products? If so lay off Aspartame for a few days and see what happens. I find that if I drink too much Diet Coke I get eyelid twitching. I may give up Diet Coke altogether as I'm concerned about long-term affects of Aspartame consumption.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Go see your general practitioner, and they will check it out. Most likely they will give you a referral to a neurologist, as it is a twitch.
Create reality, the mature 15 year old here got it on the head. I bet a lot of people get that twitch... you want to know a better place though, affected by the same thing is the muscle just above my ****, you know how those old people have really fat pubic places, like their stomach is sinking? That place where your pubes grow, I get spasms there and it hurts so bad I can't stand, doctors don't know what it is.

Neurology, isn't that field of practice obsolete now? It was the study of nervousness, study of people being too anxious, about worrying about something... you would have been right to go see them since they knew the most about your feield, they was looking at it all the wrong way. I can't help you without lying about it to myself, so just close your eyes, or do some exercises.

Stop thinking like an adult, think like a child, and don't care about it. Ignore it, and it will probably go away!

Of course I am talking out of my ass here so that you give me a real answer.

PEACE!
 

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Like muscle twitching? It happens to me alot too only when im pyshically exahausted and not rested.
 

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I don't drink coke or coke products, mainly water and OJ and loads of skim milk.. some vodka here and there for good measure.. no drugs either.

I have never been to the doctor in my life.. I am petrified of hospitals. The only time I have ever been inside one, execpt when I was born, was when my little sister was born, and I had to be dragged there.

It's till doing it, and i have been under more stress than normal recently, with me having to move and redo all my work I lost, plus my mom and I are going at it pretty hard.

I figured it was stress related, but you can never be too sure. I really wanted to just make sure I didn't have ebola or something like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Somebody once told me that it's a vitamin deficiency - B12 I think.
 
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