"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is wrong with me!?

toddC

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Okay, so I figured out the 3 things in how to get a woman you already know and so far its worked pretty well for me. Now however I have acquired a new problem.

See I usually hang out with HB's with both her friends and my friends so its a group. I've never once before hung out with a girl alone or gone out on a "Date."

So recently I've been thinking of asking some HBs out for a bite or to go to the mall and walk around or something you know, but I always just end up not asking because I'm afraid of waht to do on the date. Like I'm afraid for the most part that I couldn't keep the conversation interesting...See this is diffrent then going out wiht a random girl whom you know little about...I know mostly everything about these girls. What am I goign to talk to them at dinner or lunch about? Thanks for the help in advance guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Evangenlion

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I can't understand you, i was there too. you have to drop that thought that you won't be able to talk to them by yourself.

girls talk allot, man they can't shutup. all you have to do is mention a topic of interest and it'll last way past the lunch.
 

Holland

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Why do you want to go on a date with them? You can also talk to them while other people are around......
 
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