"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is wrong with me!?

toddC

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Okay, so I figured out the 3 things in how to get a woman you already know and so far its worked pretty well for me. Now however I have acquired a new problem.

See I usually hang out with HB's with both her friends and my friends so its a group. I've never once before hung out with a girl alone or gone out on a "Date."

So recently I've been thinking of asking some HBs out for a bite or to go to the mall and walk around or something you know, but I always just end up not asking because I'm afraid of waht to do on the date. Like I'm afraid for the most part that I couldn't keep the conversation interesting...See this is diffrent then going out wiht a random girl whom you know little about...I know mostly everything about these girls. What am I goign to talk to them at dinner or lunch about? Thanks for the help in advance guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Evangenlion

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I can't understand you, i was there too. you have to drop that thought that you won't be able to talk to them by yourself.

girls talk allot, man they can't shutup. all you have to do is mention a topic of interest and it'll last way past the lunch.
 

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Why do you want to go on a date with them? You can also talk to them while other people are around......
 
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