"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is wrong with me?!?

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I'm very frustrated at the moment, coming back from a cafeteria I was with some old friends! I kept being stared by beautiful women and I just DON'T do a thing! I've been with many women in my life but they were all either from school, or friends of a friend or something like that! Never a completely strange one! I'm a nice looking guy and I get the attention around me but I JUST DON'T ACT! I don't know what to say! The other day I was walking on the street and there was an 8 HB woman coming my way, we kept staring at each other until we passed one each other! The only thing that happened was that my heart got some kind of an electric shock for a moment, which was great, BUT NOTHING HAPPENED after this! I just don't know what to say! I've read so many things here, done so many things in my life depending on what I have read here, but I still can't win my hesitation to JUST GO AND TALK! I don't even know why I'm writing this, cause I've been here some years and I've read answers, discussion about the same thing, but nothing has really helped me!

So, let's try it some other way!

I'm sitting in a cafeteria with some friends of mine, I get to see a woman staring at me and we have eye contact! She persists on looking at me, what do I do? How would you guys act? Go there and say what? or something else... (she is sitting with some of her friends too)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how often do you pet the one eyed snake?
 
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ok, I smile! Afterwards? She will either smile back, or feel shy turn her face away and look again later!

Groovy I'm sorry but my English ain't that good enough to understand those phrases!
 
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bump!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wait until she is looking at you, but not the others

and jerk your head in a motion that means "meet me over there". She may be too embarrassed in front of her friends, or the batch of them might well be gaming you. So get her out of their sight and try for a phone number, or a private meeting someplace else, later.
 
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