women are give much more realiable advice than men do. although it might not be perfectly sound advice, but it will be better than what a man will give you.
but there are a few problems with advice women give men: honesty is the biggest one. women usually wont actually give honest advice, becuase how you perceive them is at stake. A woman probably wont want to admit to you that she wants a guy who is a real good **** in bed for example, she might not want to come across as a slut, or she might get embarrassed by admiting it or not. or maybe she doesnt want to admit to your face that the reason no women will date you is becuase you look like a geek, are fat, are short, are UGLY. she is afraid to hurt your feelings. Or maybe shell tell you that she only wants a guy with a good personality, not wanting to seem shallow or superficial by also revealing to you that he has to be atleast a little bit good looking(cant be ugly).
The other is not knowing themselves on the unconcious level. Alot of times well see a woman we find very attractive, or we might like one womans personality better than anothers. but if someone were to ask us to tell them what we liked about the womans personality or looks, we wont actually be able to tell them, we wont know what it is we liked about them, we only know when we do or dont like them. for example, you might say "she has pretty eyes, thats why I think she looks good", then the person asks "what about her eyes make them pretty?". and then you cant actually describe about her eyes that make them pretty other than the pretty eye color. women dont conciously know what they want or like in a man. so its hard to get them to tell you even if theyre willing to tell. theyll give you vague and meaningles details becuase they can make it explicit what they want.like.
men on the other hand arent conciously aware of what it is that is working for them and what is not, so their advice is bad. They might attribute their success to their money or their aggressiveness, when it really might be becuase theyre tall or good looking. so mens advice is crap too, becuase they dont really know what theyre doing right or wrong. they just do what they normally do to get chicks not knowing some of the things theyre doing arent neccessary or relevent, but yet they attribute their success to it.
however, The really hot, experienced, brutally honest women give the best advice in the world.
